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“There’s a quiet power in letting go.” As He said this to her, she knew in her heart it was true. Well…at least she knew it was true NOW. ...
She sat in her car, reflecting on what her friend just told her. “At first, I was GLAD we started doing kinky stuff! Knowing he was as ...
It’s Not Just the Crown You Wear Disclaimer – These are my views and I have screwed the pooch more than a few times in over 20 years of ...
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Crafting the Perfect Caregiver Routine Whether you’re a little, a middle, or a devoted Caregiver, routines can be more than just ...
Under the Umbrella The last several weeks we’ve been discussing the key point to the acronym BDSM, and some of the major points involved ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
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Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy ...
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Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
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Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear ...
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s ...
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. This ...
Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a ...
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear ...
What happens to your dynamic when life changes the landscape, and how you find your way through it together By kinky smurf There’s a version ...
There is a kind of man or woman, who walks into a room and the air changes. Not because they demand it. Not because they announce ...
“There’s a quiet power in letting go.” As He said this to her, she knew in her heart it was true. Well…at least she knew it was true NOW. ...
She sat in her car, reflecting on what her friend just told her. “At first, I was GLAD we started doing kinky stuff! Knowing he was as ...
It’s Not Just the Crown You Wear Disclaimer – These are my views and I have screwed the pooch more than a few times in over 20 years of ...
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That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the ...
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Okay, y’all…this girl has questions. That concludes THIS Reality Check. There will be more. Thanks for reading. ~ His Duchess
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Dungeon nights were always interesting for her. Especially when she was a Monitor. One summer night she watched as the guests arrived. Some were new
she logged in less than five minutes ago and it has already begun. Checking her messages, she saw the usual “I saw your post/picture/comment” messages.
There have been MANY times that this girl has cried but wasn’t sad. Sharing the very first time with y’all today. It was a hot
This one is boring. You will probably stop reading. Chances are that you’ll never read this Column again. But…here goes nothin’. The Bartender smiled and
Okay…so who likes puzzles? this girl certainly does! Yet some puzzles give her the blues lol. Like the ones you ALMOST have figured out but
If you have come across articles that I have posted from time to time, you should already know two things about me…. I am passionate about BDSM