“Wait…WHAT?!”
Regina Charlisa
November 3, 2021
“I suppose you think it’s acceptable to do a sloppy job. Time to teach you another lesson.” The words stung like a Dragon’s Tail. she
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the toy.“You disgust me.” The words cut through the air and straight into his heart. He fell to his knees on the cold bathroom floor.
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