Month: May 2026

Male submission

Male submission

By Vayren Aram These two words alone can invoke a myriad of images. Type those two pretty little words into the search bar of your favorite porn site and you are bound to be met with a wide (yet at the same time narrow) variety of videos and pictures. Media covering everything from sissy boys…

The Meaning and History of the Jockstrap

The Meaning and History of the Jockstrap

By Vayren Aram Invented in 1874 C.F. Bennet originally for bicycle messengers and delivery men, also known as bike jockeys, the jockstrap is an ever prevalent part of both the gay and straight culture. During the early 1900’s, jockstraps became massively popular garments for those involved in contact sports given the jock’s ability to offer…

The Limits Lie

The Limits Lie

Written by Vayren Aram “Slaves have no limits”. We hear this spouted far and wide all over online spaces and places such as Facebook and Fetlife but have we ever stopped for a moment to ponder where this belief comes from and the implications that arise from it? Could this belief perhaps be due to…

The Cane Massage

The Cane Massage

Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear the word cane and your brain immediately goes to that sharp, stinging crack that makes your eyes water just thinking about it. And yes, we will absolutely get there. But…

Role, Interrupted

Role, Interrupted

What happens to your dynamic when life changes the landscape, and how you find your way through it together By kinky smurf There’s a version of your dynamic that exists when everything is aligned. When the structure is present, the roles are fully inhabited, and the connection between you hums with the quiet certainty of…

DOMINANCE AS A DISCIPLINE

DOMINANCE AS A DISCIPLINE

There is a kind of man or woman, who walks into a room and the air changes. Not because they demand it. Not because they announce themselves. But because they have done something quietly, privately, for years. They have learned to govern themselves. This is where Dominance begins. Not in another person. In oneself. Power…