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“There’s a quiet power in letting go.” As He said this to her, she knew in her heart it was true. Well…at least she knew it was true NOW. ...
She sat in her car, reflecting on what her friend just told her. “At first, I was GLAD we started doing kinky stuff! Knowing he was as ...
It’s Not Just the Crown You Wear Disclaimer – These are my views and I have screwed the pooch more than a few times in over 20 years of ...
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Crafting the Perfect Caregiver Routine Whether you’re a little, a middle, or a devoted Caregiver, routines can be more than just ...
Under the Umbrella The last several weeks we’ve been discussing the key point to the acronym BDSM, and some of the major points involved ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in ...
Under The Umbrella We’ve already mentioned that many dynamics adopt a D/s (Dominant/submissive) or M/s (Master/slave) heirarchy, and the ...
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
Last week we kicked things off by going over some of the common umbrella terms in the kink community, that are often mantles that cover the ...
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He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s ...
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By Vayren Aram These two words alone can invoke a myriad of images. Type those two pretty little words into the search bar of your favorite ...
Written by Vayren Aram “Slaves have no limits”. We hear this spouted far and wide all over online spaces and places such as Facebook and ...
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear ...
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There is a kind of man or woman, who walks into a room and the air changes. Not because they demand it. Not because they announce ...
“There’s a quiet power in letting go.” As He said this to her, she knew in her heart it was true. Well…at least she knew it was true NOW. ...
Rope has a special place in many of our hearts. Of all the types of bondage, rope bondage is the one that arguably looks the most artistic. ...
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Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily life. I am committed to turning anything ...
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Fetish Sex, Kink and D/s BDSM are oftentimes the most vilified, feared and misunderstood dimension of our sexual nature. For centuries, culture, religion, morality, and
She was knelt before him, the outline of his cock calling to her only inches away. His symbol of power and potency firm and erect
I mean, May is National Masturbation Month after all, right? Okay then…First, the basics. Masturbation is when an individual stimulates their genitals for sexual pleasure,
How to help guide and monitor ones S type One of the very asked, yet hard to define questions about living a 24\7 dynamic are
Anyone who talks about BDSM often spends a lot of time talking about the posers, wannabes, and fake Dominants…Myself included. Part of it is out
What is a Play Party? A Play Party is a social gathering of people with an interest in kink or BDSM that usually happens in
Some refer to the prostate as the male g-spot, and massaging it just right can blow the mind of about any guy. The prostate gland
Female ejaculation, an elusive notion for some, squirt is something most have never experienced. It’s true that some women blow like Old Faithful but there
“How do I create a scene?” This is a question that seems to get asked a lot, but the truth is, a scene is personal.
That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the
What is aftercare? Scenes can be both physically and emotionally demanding and intense. Aftercare is simply the care and extra consideration, both physically and emotionally,
It’s time to talk about the wide world of anal toys, what are they made of, how to keep them clean and some different types