Dominance and submission 101

“Reality Check!”

“Reality Check!”

Okay, y’all…this girl has questions. That concludes THIS Reality Check. There will be more. Thanks for reading. ~ His Duchess

Personal Growth Starts Within

Personal Growth Starts Within

 Self-introspection is the process of taking a step back and reflecting on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It’s an important part of personal growth because it allows us to identify areas where we can improve upon ourselves. Self-reflection helps us gain insight into who we are as individuals and how we interact with the world…

The Art of the Pinch

The Art of the Pinch

Thlipsosis is described as the fetish for being pinched or pinching a partner.Even if you don’t have a kink or fetish for this per se, you might be surprised at all the ways it can be used. The pinch is the squeezing of the skin whether it be with the thumb and the finger, with…

4 Quick Essential Tips for a New Dominant

4 Quick Essential Tips for a New Dominant

Being a Dominant in the world of BDSM is an incredibly rewarding and fulfilling experience. But it’s not as simple as just taking control of your partner. There are certain responsibilities that come with being a Dominant. If you’re considering pursuing this lifestyle, here are four essential things that every Dominant must do. Set Clear…

Swimming With Sharks

Swimming With Sharks

she logged in less than five minutes ago and it has already begun. Checking her messages, she saw the usual “I saw your post/picture/comment” messages. Some completely benign; others positively Cringeworthy. Taking a deep breath, she settled in for another round of “Interesting or Cringey?” Another day…Another opportunity to learn. BDSM is like an ocean…with…

Oops!

Oops!

This one is boring. You will probably stop reading. Chances are that you’ll never read this Column again. But…here goes nothin’. The Bartender smiled and said, “What can I get ya, hon?” As she scanned the back patio she realized that she felt out of place. She turned back to the Bartender, smiled and said,…

Pillars And Puzzles

Pillars And Puzzles

Okay…so who likes puzzles? this girl certainly does! Yet some puzzles give her the blues lol. Like the ones you ALMOST have figured out but the final pieces prove to be a challenge that frustrates the hell out of us lol. Enough about that for now lol. So…It’s been a hectic week, y’all. this girl…

Ruined.

Ruined.

The message read, “Your outfit is in the garment bag in your closet. You have 1 hour.”she read it twice. And then her mind started racing. Had she missed something? Was this a celebration? A setup? As she started to let her Anxiety overtake her, she received another message. “Now u have 57 minutes. Not…

Gentleman D/Types or “Gentle-Doms”

Gentleman D/Types or “Gentle-Doms”

Being Dominant is not a replacement for having a personality. Some tend to think that it is and if they can be Dominant, then it would help them to associate with people who would not associate with them in the “vanilla” world. I guess this is why one of my classifications in the world of…

“Shhhhh…”

“Shhhhh…”

She watched as he addressed the reporters asking him questions. His uniform was pristine; his posture and hand gestures were perfect. She was very proud of him. When it was her turn to speak, she was equally poised. But then she heard something that slightly sounded like…is that…laughter?! He was laughing and joking…during her interview….