Recognizing the Signs of Gaslighting – Shedding Light on Manipulative Tactics
Gaslighting, a term derived from the play and subsequent movie “Gas Light,” refers to a form of psychological manipulation that aims to make the victim question their perception of reality, memory, and sanity. Gaslighting can occur in personal relationships, workplaces, and even in larger social or political contexts. Identifying the signs of gaslighting is crucial…
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5 Effective Tips for Cultivating Intimacy in Your Relationship
Intimacy is an essential aspect of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. It goes beyond physical affection and encompasses emotional, intellectual, and spiritual connections between partners. However, in the hustle and bustle of daily life, maintaining intimacy can sometimes become challenging. To help you deepen your bond and foster a stronger connection with your partner, here…
What is a Bullwhip?
Bullwhips are not only fascinating to watch, but they are also remarkable tools that have been used for centuries by cowboys, farmers, and other individuals who work with livestock. Even though your intended use may vary, these whips are still typically made from a combination of materials, including leather and nylon. They are designed to…
Personal Growth Starts Within
Self-introspection is the process of taking a step back and reflecting on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It’s an important part of personal growth because it allows us to identify areas where we can improve upon ourselves. Self-reflection helps us gain insight into who we are as individuals and how we interact with the world…
4 Quick Essential Tips for a New Dominant
Being a Dominant in the world of BDSM is an incredibly rewarding and fulfilling experience. But it’s not as simple as just taking control of your partner. There are certain responsibilities that come with being a Dominant. If you’re considering pursuing this lifestyle, here are four essential things that every Dominant must do. Set Clear…
So, you’re really 24/7? Really?
We hear the term 24/7 all the time in the lifestyle, I myself say it every day. But is there really any such thing? That would mean that life never gets in the way and that vanilla never comes into play. So, what exactly does 24/7 mean? Well if you take it literally, it means…
Impact Play
Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily life. I am committed to turning anything into an impact tool. In this first section, we will discuss the basics before impact play. We will also discuss Prep and headspace, spankings, flogging, whipping, caning and…
Let’s Go to a Play Party
What is a Play Party? A Play Party is a social gathering of people with an interest in kink or BDSM that usually happens in a more private setting. Unlike Munches, the gathering will typically have kink activities going on. This may include everything from instructional guides to full-on scenes. Some Play Parties will have…
Creating the Scene
“How do I create a scene?” This is a question that seems to get asked a lot, but the truth is, a scene is personal. Limits, wants, and desires are different for everyone. However, these are a few helpful tips you can use to design the scene of your fantasies. Location, Location, Location Where will…
Horsing Around
That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the bottom assumes the role of an equid. The bottom may be referred to as a ponygirl or ponyboy. During pony play, the Trainer/Owner is typically the Top or Dominant. Pony…
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