“Just. Like. That.”
Regina Charlisa
November 10, 2021
she had a rough day. After being pulled in a million different directions and putting out fires that she didn’t even start, she just needed
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the toy.“You disgust me.” The words cut through the air and straight into his heart. He fell to his knees on the cold bathroom floor.
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