Thlipsosis is described as the fetish for being pinched or pinching a partner.
Even if you don’t have a kink or fetish for this per se, you might be surprised at all the ways it can be used.
The pinch is the squeezing of the skin whether it be with the thumb and the finger, with an object or with multiple fingers. So simple, yet so many ways it can be used. Pinching can be uncomfortable, painful or even pleasurable and there can be many reasons one might choose to employee the pinch.
Sexual- So many ways the overlooked pinch can be deployed when it comes to erotic pursuits. Almost any part of the body can be pinched, most common in play is the butt, back, nipples, and genitals. Really when it comes to the pinch, use your imagination. Think of the scenes that could be created with the help of the pinch. Bottom bound, clamps or even clothespins placed on the body. The sharp bite as it is first applied,
then the revival of pain as the clamp is removed. Maybe it’s used in between an impact scene, a hard pinch on the butt to bring a different sensation. Don’t forget, even the pinch can be spiced up by adding in twists to the pinching to intensify its effect. Pinching can also be used to test the sensitivity of an area before play as well.
Punishment/ Correction- The pinch can be a subtle but effective method of correction. A light to hard pinch on the arm or the back can let your submissive know whatever is happening or being said needs to stop without anyone being any the wiser. Sometimes the pinch can be used for punishment in much less subtle ways like pinching the tongue, breasts or genitals with either the fingers or a device.
Attention- Especially in public, a submissive may be surrounded by outside stimuli, caught up in the moment a subtle command may go unnoticed. A quick pinch can bring focus back to the situation or alert the submissive that they need to paying attention.
Almost any part of the body can be pinched but caution should be used on any part of the body that may be difficult to pinch and pay attention to your partner as you vary the degree of pressure. This is not a comprehensive guide, just some ideas on how to use something so simple for big purposes.
Do you like to be pinched or pinch? Is pinching used in your dynamic? In what way?
