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What is a Bullwhip?

What is a Bullwhip?

Bullwhips are not only fascinating to watch, but they are also remarkable tools that have been used for centuries by cowboys, farmers, and other individuals who work with livestock. Even though your intended use may vary, these whips are still typically made from a combination of materials, including leather and nylon. They are designed to…

Learning the Ropes

Learning the Ropes

Rope has a special place in many of our hearts. Of all the types of bondage, rope bondage is the one that arguably looks the most artistic. It also makes for the best connection between rope rigger and the rope bunny. There are few things more intimate than running a rope along someone’s body and…

Impact Play

Impact Play

Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily  life. I am committed to turning anything into an impact tool. In this first section, we will discuss the basics before impact play. We will also discuss Prep and headspace, spankings, flogging, whipping, caning and…

Let’s Talk About Prostate Massages

Let’s Talk About Prostate Massages

Some refer to the prostate as the male g-spot, and massaging it just right can blow the mind of about any guy. The prostate gland produces the majority of a man’s ejaculation fluid. The massaging of the prostate gland can have a significant impact on the sensation of a man’s orgasm; creating a longer, deeper…

Horsing Around

Horsing Around

That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the bottom assumes the role of an equid. The bottom may be referred to as a ponygirl or ponyboy. During pony play, the Trainer/Owner is typically the Top or Dominant.  Pony…

Anal Toys

Anal Toys

It’s time to talk about the wide world of anal toys, what are they made of, how to keep them clean and some different types out there. When it comes to choosing the right toy for anal play, you want to above all, make sure it’s safe. Look for products labeled food-grade or medical grade….

The Wide World of Gags

The Wide World of Gags

Gags are generally used to inhibit use of the mouth by inserting something into it to prevent speech or noise or to keep it open.    In the world of kink, the purpose for the use of gag can be so much more far-reaching. It could be the sight, control, or even the function it…

Let’s Turn the Heat Up in Here

Let’s Turn the Heat Up in Here

I’m talking about Temperature play and for this post specifically wax play. One of my absolute favorite tools for scenes.  Let’s discuss some basics. This list is by no means comprehensive and you should defiantly do your homework but here are some definite points that you should think about and use. First let’s talk Prep….

Slippery When Wet

Slippery When Wet

Calm down,  I am talking about lube.  Lube is super important addition to all types of play, it can help prevent friction burn and prolong fun. But there are so many! How do you choose?Hopefully this will help next time you’re searching for that perfect one. Water Based:  Positive features 1. Condom safe  2. Easy…

Anal Training

Anal Training

This is pretty much exactly what it sounds like, training your body for anal sex or larger anal toys (anal stretching). Some can be reluctant to try anal and most of the time, it’s because they think it might be painful. Can it be? Of course, but it’s not suppose to be. If you’re interested…