Month: September 2021

A Reminder

A Reminder

Okay… So this girl was halfway through writing an article, took a break and saw a beautiful post on Instagram so now…new topic! Anyway,the post was a snippet from a heavy Impact scene. The bottom was bent over a bench, hands bound, gagged and blindfolded. Some refer to this as a Sensory Play Trinity lol….

Being “Kinky Enough”

Being “Kinky Enough”

Identifying as kinky, or just being interested in learning more about kink, is an entirely personal and individualized experience. However, Do not think that to belong to kink groups or to visit kinky spaces you must qualify as “Kinky Enough”. Whether you have twenty years of kink experience or just decided twenty minutes ago that…

Uh Oh!

Uh Oh!

“Is there something you want to tell me about?” she stopped cold and surveyed her surroundings. The whoosh of the ceiling fan was the only sound in the room. There was a chair positioned in the center of the room. A covered table was near the chair. A snap of His fingers jolted her back….

An Unexpected Lesson

An Unexpected Lesson

“Wake up. NOW, bitch.” He was shaking her foot. she was startled as she opened her eyes and tried to focus. And right at that moment, He dragged her out of the bed by her ankles. she tried to brace her head; then realized it probably looked like she was struggling. Not good. Once she…

Compersion

Compersion

First of all, what is compersion anyway? Simply put, compersion is our wholehearted participation in the happiness of others. It is the sympathetic joy we feel for somebody else, even when their positive experience does not involve or benefit us directly. For example, as I am writing this, my submissive/poly wife is getting ready for…

Enema Play 101

Enema Play 101

Heyyy, y’all! Erotic Enemas are enjoyed by a wide number of the population. Dr. Joanne Denko coined the work Klismaphilia to describe the practices of people who enjoyed the use of enemas as a sexual stimulant. Enema Play has a strong appeal to those who enjoy anal stimulation. For those who are into Dominance and…

So, you’re really 24/7? Really?

So, you’re really 24/7? Really?

We hear the term 24/7 all the time in the lifestyle, I myself say it every day. But is there really any such thing? That would mean that life never gets in the way and that vanilla never comes into play. So, what exactly does 24/7 mean? Well if you take it literally, it means…

What to Expect From a Play Party?

What to Expect From a Play Party?

In laymen’s terms, a play party is usually a private event that hosted by someone in a private setting (Home, private or rented dungeon etc.) They are sometimes held after another more public event, such as a munch. *Disclaimer Please remember that there is no guarantee that there will be a party after any event,…

The Cat’s Out Of The Bag!

The Cat’s Out Of The Bag!

Okay…let’s get into this. Some of U/us spent years leading double lives. W/we work, socialize, raise families, etc…all while having desires and needs that most folks might consider dangerous. Losing custody of children, breaking the law type dangerous. So W/we kept a large part of who W/we truly are hidden. We might do this because…