Male submission
By Vayren Aram These two words alone can invoke a myriad of images. Type those two pretty little words into the search bar of your favorite porn site and you are bound to be met with a wide (yet at the same time narrow) variety of videos and pictures. Media covering everything from sissy boys…
Vayren Aram
The Limits Lie
Written by Vayren Aram “Slaves have no limits”. We hear this spouted far and wide all over online spaces and places such as Facebook and Fetlife but have we ever stopped for a moment to ponder where this belief comes from and the implications that arise from it? Could this belief perhaps be due to…
Role, Interrupted
What happens to your dynamic when life changes the landscape, and how you find your way through it together By kinky smurf There’s a version of your dynamic that exists when everything is aligned. When the structure is present, the roles are fully inhabited, and the connection between you hums with the quiet certainty of…
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DOMINANCE AS A DISCIPLINE
There is a kind of man or woman, who walks into a room and the air changes. Not because they demand it. Not because they announce themselves. But because they have done something quietly, privately, for years. They have learned to govern themselves. This is where Dominance begins. Not in another person. In oneself. Power…
SmutHustler
Journaling for Littles and Middles
Because feelings are big—and you don’t have to carry them alone! Being a Little or Middle often means feeling everything very deeply—joy, nervousness, giggles, grumps, and even those moments when everything feels like a lot. That’s part of your magic! But even magical hearts need safe ways to let those feelings out, sort through them,…
Chemistry +Compatibility=Synergy
She sat in her car, reflecting on what her friend just told her. “At first, I was GLAD we started doing kinky stuff! Knowing he was as excited as I was! But lately…the spark is gone! He still wants to try this toy or that kink; and I just wanna watch YouTube until I fall…
Regina Charlisa
The Cautionary Tale of Being a Master
It’s Not Just the Crown You Wear Disclaimer – These are my views and I have screwed the pooch more than a few times in over 20 years of leading a beautiful and amazing submissive woman. Enjoy. Many people love the fantasy of Dominance. The commanding presence and the control. The title of Master just…
Making Beautiful Music…Together
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking everything in…her hair, wild. her eyes, closed. her breathing, ragged. her body, covered in goosebumps. her hands, BUSY. her moans, GLORIOUS. He walked over to her, bent down, grabbed a handful…
Structure Can Be Sweet
Crafting the Perfect Caregiver Routine Whether you’re a little, a middle, or a devoted Caregiver, routines can be more than just predictable—they can be magical. In the world of CGl (Caregiver/little) dynamics, structure isn’t about discipline (well… not always)—it’s about creating safety, fostering connection, and sprinkling your shared lives with daily doses of love. Caregiver…
Intro to Poly
Under the Umbrella The last several weeks we’ve been discussing the key point to the acronym BDSM, and some of the major points involved within those dynamics. We will be discussing more on that as we move forward, but we’ll be switching gears this week discussing another umbrella term within the community, Polyamory. Polyamory (poly)…
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