By Vayren Aram These two words alone can invoke a myriad of images. Type those two pretty little words into the search bar of your favorite ...
By Vayren Aram Invented in 1874 C.F. Bennet originally for bicycle messengers and delivery men, also known as bike jockeys, the jockstrap is ...
Written by Vayren Aram “Slaves have no limits”. We hear this spouted far and wide all over online spaces and places such as Facebook and ...
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear ...
What happens to your dynamic when life changes the landscape, and how you find your way through it together By kinky smurf There’s a version ...
There is a kind of man or woman, who walks into a room and the air changes. Not because they demand it. Not because they announce ...
Because feelings are big—and you don’t have to carry them alone! Being a Little or Middle often means feeling everything very deeply—joy, ...
“There’s a quiet power in letting go.” As He said this to her, she knew in her heart it was true. Well…at least she knew it was true NOW. ...
She sat in her car, reflecting on what her friend just told her. “At first, I was GLAD we started doing kinky stuff! Knowing he was as ...
It’s Not Just the Crown You Wear Disclaimer – These are my views and I have screwed the pooch more than a few times in over 20 years of ...
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Crafting the Perfect Caregiver Routine Whether you’re a little, a middle, or a devoted Caregiver, routines can be more than just ...
Under the Umbrella The last several weeks we’ve been discussing the key point to the acronym BDSM, and some of the major points involved ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in ...
Under The Umbrella We’ve already mentioned that many dynamics adopt a D/s (Dominant/submissive) or M/s (Master/slave) heirarchy, and the ...
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
Last week we kicked things off by going over some of the common umbrella terms in the kink community, that are often mantles that cover the ...
By Vayren Aram Invented in 1874 C.F. Bennet originally for bicycle messengers and delivery men, also known as bike jockeys, the jockstrap is ...
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear ...
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s ...
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. This ...
By Vayren Aram These two words alone can invoke a myriad of images. Type those two pretty little words into the search bar of your favorite ...
Written by Vayren Aram “Slaves have no limits”. We hear this spouted far and wide all over online spaces and places such as Facebook and ...
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear ...
What happens to your dynamic when life changes the landscape, and how you find your way through it together By kinky smurf There’s a version ...
There is a kind of man or woman, who walks into a room and the air changes. Not because they demand it. Not because they announce ...
“There’s a quiet power in letting go.” As He said this to her, she knew in her heart it was true. Well…at least she knew it was true NOW. ...
I’m talking about Temperature play and for this post specifically wax play. One of my absolute favorite tools for scenes. Let’s discuss ...
This is pretty much exactly what it sounds like, training your body for anal sex or larger anal toys (anal stretching). Some can be ...
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. This ...
Rope has a special place in many of our hearts. Of all the types of bondage, rope bondage is the one that arguably looks the most artistic. ...
That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the ...
Some refer to the prostate as the male g-spot, and massaging it just right can blow the mind of about any guy. The prostate gland produces ...
Whether your dynamic is a 24/7 live in relationship, a long distance relationship, or even that chance encounter with a wonderful submissive at you met
As the car stopped, her heart raced. she tried to focus…and listen. The goggles she wore to conceal her blindfold from others during the drive
When you play hard as a solo kinkster, it may be up to you to care for yourself in the hours and days following a
“Use your words.” she stood across the bed from Him. she made a fist and dug her thumbnail into her palm until it hurt. It
“Let’s go, my toy soldier.” After sitting at the table in the back, watching everyone, it was time. The heat rushed to his face. His
He did that thing she loved! she was in the shower, singing loudly, off key like a MF. she caught herself and laughed. Girl, that
As John Donne said, “No man is an island, entire of itself…Every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.” While
she walked into the garage and saw Him. He was standing next to the heavy bag, breathless, sweaty and SMILING. “Come get some.” He gestured
Heyyy, Y/y’all! Let’s talk about Labels. Some find them helpful or even a requirement; others find them unnecessary and frustrating. Truth is, W/we all believe
she took a deep breath and gathered herself. It was time. she had to. But then the doubts and fears crept in. What will happen?
she was up early, prepping for the class she would be teaching later that morning. He asked if she was fully prepared. “Yes, Sir. this
We all know that long distance relationships are hard, but what if you add BDSM into the mix? Both BDSM and long distance relationships require