How to help guide and monitor ones S type
One of the very asked, yet hard to define questions about living a 24\7 dynamic are the “How-tos.” How to do this. How to do that. Et cetera, et cetera, you get the idea. For me, in my experience, through trial and error, it is best to write, in full detail, exactly what one wishes to see. In writing, the rules and protocols become real. They are now seen. They can be referenced. They are tangible on that piece of paper. There can be no confusion. I would dare to even say they are set in stone; but alas, although extremely important, they are penned in ink. However, let us not use the invisible kind, but a strong and solid black or blue; you know, the same colors that some of our pain sluts aka masochists enjoy to wear. But I digress, let us continue.
I have created a chart. I do so enjoy charts. They bring me happiness in being consistent. Whenever a question arises, reference the chart for clarification. Simple. Easy. Efficient. I do so like efficiency.
This chart is a way, the way, that I run my daily monitoring of my s type. These are my daily expectations. This chart will give you, the new or old Doms and subs, a creative way to incorporate understanding and proper communication. Use it as you wish. Adjust it for your own dynamic. Id expect nothing less of you. I do hope you enjoy.
Master Daemons Rules of Daily Conduct
Rule 1. Take care of Masters property. This means yourself.
- 1 A Eat and drink right according to diet.
- 1 B Exercise according to goals.
- 1 C Take meds as prescribed
- 1 D Bathe and personal hygiene
Rule 2. Report any change of status.
- 2 A Stay communicative.
- 2 B Emotional status:
- B 1 Sadness
- B 2 Angry
- B 3 Loneliness
- B 4 Scared
- 2 C Mental status:
- C 1 Insecurity
- C 2 Confusion
- C 3 Discomfort in Rules, Protocols
- C 4 Thoughts that can cause resentment
- 2 D Physical status:
- D 1 Illness or sicknesses
- D 2 Accidents or falls
- D 3 Blood, Breaks ,Sprains
- D 4 Sudden health changes
Rule 3 Personal Responsibility – Word
- 3 A Lying is forbidden.
- 3 B Be open to receive instruction.
- 3 C Be transparent, no matter the cost
- 3 D Have candor. Speak in real truths.
Rule 4 Personal Responsibility- Deed
- 4 A Always keep ones word
- 4 B Never cause harm to self or another
- 4 C Always Walk your Talk.
- 4 D Comport yourself with grace
Rule 5 Forgiveness
- 5 A Forgive yourself for mistakes once corrected.
- 5 B Forgive others for trespasses against you, but learn from it so it doesn’t happen again.
- B 1 DO NOT allow them to rent space in your head.
Rule 6 Boundaries
- 6 A Set healthy, with love not a machete
- 6 B Maintain and adjust as deemed prudent
Rule 7 Love
- 7 A Love yourself unconditionally.
- 7 B Treat others you love genteelly.
- 7 C Love your world and treat with respect
- 7 D Love your family fully w\o expectations
- 7 E New love found, See Rule 2.
Add more as necessity demands. Add your own flair to reflect your own and unique dynamic. Have fun with this chart. Life is too short to drink cheap wine out of a box. Love each day fully.
After all, you are in one of the best dynamics to bring great happiness to your life.
Enjoy it.
