
Starting and Stopping
ne·go·ti·a·tion /nəˌɡōSHēˈāSH(ə)n noun Heyyy, Y/y’all! Entering into a BDSM relationship is much like getting into any other type of relationship. However it is also unlike
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
Last week we kicked things off by going over some of the common umbrella terms in the kink community, that are often mantles that cover the ...
In our lifestyle, however it may manifest, we are encountered with numerous“umbrella terms”. These terms cover various other ...
Life isn’t all sunshine, orgasms and perfectly executed protocols. Sometimes, it’s tough. Work sucks. Bills pile up. Stress sneaks in, like ...
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford ...
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder ...
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was ...
Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a ...
Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can ...
Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, ...
R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. ...
When it comes to celebrating Valentine’s Day, chocolates and roses are classic, but why not spice things up this year with something a ...
The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between ...
Are you ready to to take a look into impact play? It is one of the number one kinks explored and whether you’re new to the scene or ...
Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s ...
Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons ...
Balancing Pleasure and Well-being Welcome explorers of desire! Are you ready to take a dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked ...
she sat quietly, looking at her phone in disbelief. The message simply said, “You got a minute?” Seems like a basic thing. she knew ...
In the amazingly complicated world of power exchange relationships, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of a clearly defined dynamic ...
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a ...
Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, ...
When it comes to celebrating Valentine’s Day, chocolates and roses are classic, but why not spice things up this year with something a ...
Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into ...
Let’s explore the empowering and exhilarating intersection of BDSM and body positivity. Whether you’ve been in the scene for a while ...
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford ...
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder ...
What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was ...
Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can ...
R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. ...
Gags are generally used to inhibit use of the mouth by inserting something into it to prevent speech or noise or to keep it open. In the ...
This is pretty much exactly what it sounds like, training your body for anal sex or larger anal toys (anal stretching). Some can be ...
Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily life. I am committed to turning ...
Some refer to the prostate as the male g-spot, and massaging it just right can blow the mind of about any guy. The prostate gland produces ...
Bullwhips are not only fascinating to watch, but they are also remarkable tools that have been used for centuries by cowboys, farmers, and ...
Take your playtime to the next level by creating the perfect dungeon at home. Transforming your space into a private playground of pleasure ...
ne·go·ti·a·tion /nəˌɡōSHēˈāSH(ə)n noun Heyyy, Y/y’all! Entering into a BDSM relationship is much like getting into any other type of relationship. However it is also unlike
*cue tribal drums* All of us have it…An aggressive inner force, an animalistic energy that we encounter occasionally, usually in times of extreme emotional or
Heyyy, Y/y’all! Okay, so Y/you see something that intrigues Y/you and say to yourself, “S/self…I like that! I think I am using/trying that one!” Okay
Disclaimer: Just a reminder that these opinions are mine and mine alone based on what I have personally witnessed or heard throughout my journey that
Heyyy, y’all! O/our Thing is vast, exciting, challenging, exhilarating and exhausting under ideal circumstances. But add lack of opportunity to that mix and things can
I think one reason that the answer did not come to me straight away is that Dahlia and I do not argue on a regular basis.
Part Three of a Ten part Series Greetings to all you wonderful readers out there. Today I hope to inspire the mind by continuing on
As I am writing this article, I am sitting in the chair of a hotel room, while two women (One semi-nude, one completely nude) are
Hey Matthias, why even consider bondage safety? Bondage plays the same role in sex as extreme sports do in athletics. Both go beyond the mainstream, pushing
Disclaimer: Be mindful that this guide is not exhaustive, and is both Western and United States-centric. Other cultures may use different labels and have other
Welcome back to our second installment of submissive and slave positioning. Today we are going to talk about, “what to do when we are disabled,
1)As I have said time and time again, beating somebody does not make you a Dominant. Let’s face it, anybody can be taught how to