Regina Charlisa
August 18, 2021
‘Sup, Y/y’all! Who’s familiar with “Words have power?” this girl is fairly certain that W/we all have heard it or even said it before. But
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Making Beautiful Music…Together
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Structure Can Be Sweet
Crafting the Perfect Caregiver Routine Whether you’re a little, a middle, or a devoted Caregiver, routines can be more than just ...
Intro to Poly
Under the Umbrella The last several weeks we’ve been discussing the key point to the acronym BDSM, and some of the major points ...
Masochism
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
Sadism
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for ...
submission
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy ...
Domination
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in ...
Discipline
Under The Umbrella We’ve already mentioned that many dynamics adopt a D/s (Dominant/submissive) or M/s (Master/slave) heirarchy, and ...
Ending a Power Exchange Dynamic
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
Bondage- Under the Umbrella
Last week we kicked things off by going over some of the common umbrella terms in the kink community, that are often mantles that cover the ...
Under the Umbrella
In our lifestyle, however it may manifest, we are encountered with numerous“umbrella terms”. These terms cover various other ...
Why Mindset Matters: The Power of Positivity in Power Exchange
Life isn’t all sunshine, orgasms and perfectly executed protocols. Sometimes, it’s tough. Work sucks. Bills pile up. Stress sneaks in, like ...
Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford ...
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder ...
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
Oh, The STRESS!
What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was ...
Whack, Smack, and Crack – Impact Play Fun
Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a ...
Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM
Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can ...
The Playful Guide to Wax Play
Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, ...
The Conversation Continues
R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. ...
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Making Beautiful Music…Together
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Masochism
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
Sadism
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for ...
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
Whack, Smack, and Crack – Impact Play Fun
Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a ...
The Playful Guide to Wax Play
Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, ...
Dominance and submission 101View More
submission
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy ...
Domination
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in ...
Ending a Power Exchange Dynamic
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford ...
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder ...
Oh, The STRESS!
What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was ...
Toy TimeView More
Let’s Turn the Heat Up in Here
I’m talking about Temperature play and for this post specifically wax play. One of my absolute favorite tools for scenes. Let’s ...
Horsing Around
That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the ...
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
Impact Play
Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily life. I am committed to turning ...
Anal Training
This is pretty much exactly what it sounds like, training your body for anal sex or larger anal toys (anal stretching). Some can be ...
Anal Toys
It’s time to talk about the wide world of anal toys, what are they made of, how to keep them clean and some different types out there. When ...
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Meeting People In The Scene
Matthias Black
August 12, 2021
“How do I meet people?” If I had a dollar for every time I read or was asked this question…Well, let’s just say, I would
“Rabbit Holes and Butterflies”
Regina Charlisa
August 11, 2021
fren·zy /ˈfrenzē/ noun a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior. Okay, y’all…let’s do this. Vicenza Italy, 1994. this girl and her hubby
BDSM and Sex
Matthias Black
August 8, 2021
A common misconception that causes havoc at times in the kink community is that BDSM, sex and/or love automatically must go together. While this statement
“W/we Need U/us!”
Regina Charlisa
August 4, 2021
How many of Y/you have seen the movie “Backdraft?” The firefighters had a motto whenever one of them was about to fall and the others
Your First BDSM Scene
Matthias Black
July 29, 2021
Most partners engaging in BDSM for the first time do have challenges trying to plan on how they want the whole session to go. Indeed,
Surrender
Regina Charlisa
July 28, 2021
“Once Upon A Time…” She walked in and began to kneel. He said, “No…Inspection.” She obeyed. She looked at Him; His eyes were…different. She looked
Treasures
Matthias Black
July 22, 2021
If you are new to BDSM, or impact play specifically, you might wonder what to do about your conspicuously hot post-play marks or “treasures” as
Starting and Stopping
Regina Charlisa
July 21, 2021
ne·go·ti·a·tion /nəˌɡōSHēˈāSH(ə)n noun Heyyy, Y/y’all! Entering into a BDSM relationship is much like getting into any other type of relationship. However it is also unlike
Releasing the Inner Animal
Matthias Black
July 15, 2021
*cue tribal drums* All of us have it…An aggressive inner force, an animalistic energy that we encounter occasionally, usually in times of extreme emotional or
A Constant Adventure
Regina Charlisa
July 14, 2021
Heyyy, Y/y’all! Okay, so Y/you see something that intrigues Y/you and say to yourself, “S/self…I like that! I think I am using/trying that one!” Okay
Drugs, Alcohol and the Scene
Matthias Black
July 8, 2021
Disclaimer: Just a reminder that these opinions are mine and mine alone based on what I have personally witnessed or heard throughout my journey that