Lesson Learned
Castar Daemon
June 1, 2021
“I cannot teach anybody anything, I can only make them think.” – Socrates Quick question. What have you learned that has helped your life in
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Needs vs. Wants in Relationships
The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between ...
Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips
Are you ready to to take a look into impact play? It is one of the number one kinks explored and whether you’re new to the scene or ...
Safety is the Subject
Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s ...
How to Keep the Spark Alive
Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons ...
BDSM and Mental Health
Balancing Pleasure and Well-being Welcome explorers of desire! Are you ready to take a dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked ...
Selfishness and submission
she sat quietly, looking at her phone in disbelief. The message simply said, “You got a minute?” Seems like a basic thing. she knew ...
The Power Imbalance in Power Exchange Dynamics
In the amazingly complicated world of power exchange relationships, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of a clearly defined dynamic ...
Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into ...
“A Conversation.”
Looking at the Male submissive Perspective She smiled as she thought of him. She straightened herself up as she dialed. Two rings later, she ...
What is Compersion?
The Art of Feeling Warm Fuzzies When Your Partner’s Having a Good Time…With Someone Else Ah, compersion, the elusive, unicorn like ...
Embracing Your Kinky Self
Let’s explore the empowering and exhilarating intersection of BDSM and body positivity. Whether you’ve been in the scene for a while ...
A Look At Masochism
“Masochism. Is. Agony. It’s also ecstasy. It’s also frustrating. And also exhilarating. It’s like, ‘It hurts me, yet doesn’t ...
Sensibly Social: Etiquette in BDSM and Kink Events
They were nervous about what to expect. They went through several different outfits. They came up with codes and signals to use. Finally, ...
Ignite the Spark of Curiosity
How to Introduce BDSM to a Vanilla Partner So, you’ve discovered the thrilling world of BDSM, and you’re eager to share it with ...
Tips for littles and Caregivers—Age Play Exploration
The delightful and whimsical world of age play, a kink that allows adults to regress into child like personas (littles) and their caregivers ...
TICK TOCK! Time Management in BDSM
Day three of the Conference was BRUTAL. So many things went wrong; luckily everything was fixable. She was looking forward to tonight. ...
Digital Desires: Kink Friendly Dating Apps and How to Use Them
Today Free the Kinkers, we are going to talk about going to the internet to fulfill our desires. That’s right, we are talking about kink ...
Creating the Perfect BDSM Dungeon at Home
Take your playtime to the next level by creating the perfect dungeon at home. Transforming your space into a private playground of pleasure ...
The “C” Word: Discovering Consent
“Ready for it, sparky?” She grinned as she surveyed her work. He was tied to the chair, nipples clamped, caged, gagged and blindfolded. Yet, ...
Recognizing the Signs of Gaslighting – Shedding Light on Manipulative Tactics
Gaslighting, a term derived from the play and subsequent movie “Gas Light,” refers to a form of psychological manipulation that ...
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Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into ...
Embracing Your Kinky Self
Let’s explore the empowering and exhilarating intersection of BDSM and body positivity. Whether you’ve been in the scene for a while ...
A Look At Masochism
“Masochism. Is. Agony. It’s also ecstasy. It’s also frustrating. And also exhilarating. It’s like, ‘It hurts me, yet doesn’t ...
Creating the Perfect BDSM Dungeon at Home
Take your playtime to the next level by creating the perfect dungeon at home. Transforming your space into a private playground of pleasure ...
The “C” Word: Discovering Consent
“Ready for it, sparky?” She grinned as she surveyed her work. He was tied to the chair, nipples clamped, caged, gagged and blindfolded. Yet, ...
“Reality Check!”
Okay, y’all…this girl has questions. That concludes THIS Reality Check. There will be more. Thanks for reading. ~ His Duchess
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Needs vs. Wants in Relationships
The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between ...
Safety is the Subject
Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s ...
BDSM and Mental Health
Balancing Pleasure and Well-being Welcome explorers of desire! Are you ready to take a dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked ...
Selfishness and submission
she sat quietly, looking at her phone in disbelief. The message simply said, “You got a minute?” Seems like a basic thing. she knew ...
The Power Imbalance in Power Exchange Dynamics
In the amazingly complicated world of power exchange relationships, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of a clearly defined dynamic ...
Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into ...
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Let’s Turn the Heat Up in Here
I’m talking about Temperature play and for this post specifically wax play. One of my absolute favorite tools for scenes. Let’s ...
Learning the Ropes
Rope has a special place in many of our hearts. Of all the types of bondage, rope bondage is the one that arguably looks the most artistic. ...
Impact Play
Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily life. I am committed to turning ...
What is a Bullwhip?
Bullwhips are not only fascinating to watch, but they are also remarkable tools that have been used for centuries by cowboys, farmers, and ...
Anal Training
This is pretty much exactly what it sounds like, training your body for anal sex or larger anal toys (anal stretching). Some can be ...
Horsing Around
That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the ...
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Thoughts Regarding Service
Matthias Black
May 27, 2021
Service is an important part of most D/s and M/s relationships. The term “service” can be applied to both sides of these relationships, but this
Finding a Mentor
Matthias Black
May 20, 2021
There are guides and mentors in every area of life and situation. In BDSMit is oftentimes recommended that those who are new to BDSM acquire
Littles, Middles, and Bigs, oh my!
Castar Daemon
May 19, 2021
I’ve noticed in my many years of being in the “communities”, that with this new generation of kinksters, comes an influx of what some people
Impact Play
SmutHustler
May 14, 2021
Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily life. I am committed to
Becoming the New Norm
Matthias Black
May 13, 2021
Fetish Sex, Kink and D/s BDSM are oftentimes the most vilified, feared and misunderstood dimension of our sexual nature. For centuries, culture, religion, morality, and
Worship the D
kinky smurf
May 12, 2021
She was knelt before him, the outline of his cock calling to her only inches away. His symbol of power and potency firm and erect
Masturbation
Matthias Black
May 6, 2021
I mean, May is National Masturbation Month after all, right? Okay then…First, the basics. Masturbation is when an individual stimulates their genitals for sexual pleasure,
The Daily Struggle
Castar Daemon
May 4, 2021
How to help guide and monitor ones S type One of the very asked, yet hard to define questions about living a 24\7 dynamic are
What Makes a “Good” Dominant
Matthias Black
April 29, 2021
Anyone who talks about BDSM often spends a lot of time talking about the posers, wannabes, and fake Dominants…Myself included. Part of it is out
Let’s Go to a Play Party
SmutHustler
July 10, 2020
What is a Play Party? A Play Party is a social gathering of people with an interest in kink or BDSM that usually happens in
Let’s Talk About Prostate Massages
kinky smurf
May 15, 2020
Some refer to the prostate as the male g-spot, and massaging it just right can blow the mind of about any guy. The prostate gland