Drugs, Alcohol and the Scene
Matthias Black
July 8, 2021
Disclaimer: Just a reminder that these opinions are mine and mine alone based on what I have personally witnessed or heard throughout my journey that
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The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
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Oh, The STRESS!
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The Conversation Continues
R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. ...
Bondage 101: Valentine’s Day Edition
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Needs vs. Wants in Relationships
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Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips
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Safety is the Subject
Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s ...
How to Keep the Spark Alive
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BDSM and Mental Health
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Selfishness and submission
she sat quietly, looking at her phone in disbelief. The message simply said, “You got a minute?” Seems like a basic thing. she knew ...
The Power Imbalance in Power Exchange Dynamics
In the amazingly complicated world of power exchange relationships, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of a clearly defined dynamic ...
Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into ...
“A Conversation.”
Looking at the Male submissive Perspective She smiled as she thought of him. She straightened herself up as she dialed. Two rings later, she ...
What is Compersion?
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The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
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The Playful Guide to Wax Play
Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, ...
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Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford ...
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder ...
Oh, The STRESS!
What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was ...
Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM
Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can ...
The Conversation Continues
R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. ...
Bondage 101: Valentine’s Day Edition
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The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
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Location, Location,LOCATION!!!
Regina Charlisa
July 7, 2021
Heyyy, y’all! O/our Thing is vast, exciting, challenging, exhilarating and exhausting under ideal circumstances. But add lack of opportunity to that mix and things can
Handling Arguments
Matthias Black
July 1, 2021
I think one reason that the answer did not come to me straight away is that Dahlia and I do not argue on a regular basis.
In Position Part 3: Admittance of Error/Coming Clean
Castar Daemon
June 29, 2021
Part Three of a Ten part Series Greetings to all you wonderful readers out there. Today I hope to inspire the mind by continuing on
Respectful Voyeurism
Matthias Black
June 24, 2021
As I am writing this article, I am sitting in the chair of a hotel room, while two women (One semi-nude, one completely nude) are
Basic Rope Bondage Safety
Matthias Black
June 18, 2021
Hey Matthias, why even consider bondage safety? Bondage plays the same role in sex as extreme sports do in athletics. Both go beyond the mainstream, pushing
Gender Identity Terms
Matthias Black
June 11, 2021
Disclaimer: Be mindful that this guide is not exhaustive, and is both Western and United States-centric. Other cultures may use different labels and have other
In Position Part 2: Disabilities in Service
Castar Daemon
June 10, 2021
Welcome back to our second installment of submissive and slave positioning. Today we are going to talk about, “what to do when we are disabled,
Words of Advice For the Brand New Dominant…In No Particular Order.
Matthias Black
June 3, 2021
1)As I have said time and time again, beating somebody does not make you a Dominant. Let’s face it, anybody can be taught how to
In Position Part 1: In Service
Castar Daemon
June 1, 2021
Over the next ten weeks, we shall be going over various parts of service and positioning of the submissive and slave. My hope is with
Lesson Learned
Castar Daemon
June 1, 2021
“I cannot teach anybody anything, I can only make them think.” – Socrates Quick question. What have you learned that has helped your life in
Thoughts Regarding Service
Matthias Black
May 27, 2021
Service is an important part of most D/s and M/s relationships. The term “service” can be applied to both sides of these relationships, but this