Littles, Middles, and Bigs, oh my!
Castar Daemon
May 19, 2021
I’ve noticed in my many years of being in the “communities”, that with this new generation of kinksters, comes an influx of what some people
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He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
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Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder ...
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
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Oh, The STRESS!
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The Playful Guide to Wax Play
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R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. ...
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Making Beautiful Music…Together
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking ...
Masochism
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a ...
Sadism
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Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
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Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a ...
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Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, ...
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Brutal Honesty
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Let’s Get Together!
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Oh, The STRESS!
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Learning the Ropes
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Horsing Around
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Impact Play
SmutHustler
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Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily life. I am committed to
Becoming the New Norm
Matthias Black
May 13, 2021
Fetish Sex, Kink and D/s BDSM are oftentimes the most vilified, feared and misunderstood dimension of our sexual nature. For centuries, culture, religion, morality, and
Worship the D
kinky smurf
May 12, 2021
She was knelt before him, the outline of his cock calling to her only inches away. His symbol of power and potency firm and erect
Masturbation
Matthias Black
May 6, 2021
I mean, May is National Masturbation Month after all, right? Okay then…First, the basics. Masturbation is when an individual stimulates their genitals for sexual pleasure,
The Daily Struggle
Castar Daemon
May 4, 2021
How to help guide and monitor ones S type One of the very asked, yet hard to define questions about living a 24\7 dynamic are
What Makes a “Good” Dominant
Matthias Black
April 29, 2021
Anyone who talks about BDSM often spends a lot of time talking about the posers, wannabes, and fake Dominants…Myself included. Part of it is out
Let’s Go to a Play Party
SmutHustler
July 10, 2020
What is a Play Party? A Play Party is a social gathering of people with an interest in kink or BDSM that usually happens in
Let’s Talk About Prostate Massages
kinky smurf
May 15, 2020
Some refer to the prostate as the male g-spot, and massaging it just right can blow the mind of about any guy. The prostate gland
Squirt Can Happen
kinky smurf
April 30, 2020
Female ejaculation, an elusive notion for some, squirt is something most have never experienced. It’s true that some women blow like Old Faithful but there
Creating the Scene
SmutHustler
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“How do I create a scene?” This is a question that seems to get asked a lot, but the truth is, a scene is personal.
Horsing Around
SmutHustler
April 18, 2020
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