The Meaning and History of the Jockstrap
By Vayren Aram Invented in 1874 C.F. Bennet originally for bicycle messengers and delivery men, also known as bike jockeys, the jockstrap is an ever prevalent part of both the gay and straight culture. During the early 1900’s, jockstraps became massively popular garments for those involved in contact sports given the jock’s ability to offer…
Vayren Aram
The Cane Massage
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear the word cane and your brain immediately goes to that sharp, stinging crack that makes your eyes water just thinking about it. And yes, we will absolutely get there. But…
kinky smurf
Making Beautiful Music…Together
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking everything in…her hair, wild. her eyes, closed. her breathing, ragged. her body, covered in goosebumps. her hands, BUSY. her moans, GLORIOUS. He walked over to her, bent down, grabbed a handful…
Regina Charlisa
Sadism
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s own well-being. Awareness is an important thing for either side of the slash in any type of BDSM dynamic, and is going to weigh in heavily with this week’s topic: Sadism. Sadism…
Bad Daddy Drew
Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford to fudge, dance around or sugarcoat, be brutally honest about your needs, wants and desires. Not “hint at,” not “hope they’ll just understand,” not “assume it’ll all work out.” Full, unfiltered, cards-on-the-table…
SmutHustler
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder 1, 78 years old: “Do y’all still have meet ups? You know, eat, drink, laugh, sizing each other up? Hee hee” Elder 2, 81 years old: “We used…
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. This guide will walk you through the how-tos, safety tips, and the fun of depriving the senses—all while keeping things safe, sexy, and full of trust. Let’s dive in! What Is Sensory…
Oh, The STRESS!
What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was floating. As she started her drive home, she was singing and smiling. Her phone dinged. And then, it hit her. Dungeon Time tonight. “$h!t! Is my hair okay? Will my outfit be…
Whack, Smack, and Crack – Impact Play Fun
Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a try. From spanking to paddling, flogging to cropping, this playful practice transforms simple strikes into a symphony of sensations. Impact play is all about mixing style, finesse, and…
The Playful Guide to Wax Play
Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, and a little messy if you’re not careful. If you’re curious about dripping hot wax on your partner and turning your bedroom into a candlelit masterpiece, check out these tips,…