Welcome back to our second installment of submissive and slave positioning. Today we are going to talk about, “what to do when we are disabled, elderly or handicapped and cannot do certain positions any longer.” Well, don’t you worry, Master Daemon has the answers for you. Sidenote- Yes I just referred to myself in third person…. sometimes I wonder what is wrong with me. -lol-
To begin, let us first take a look at the most important avenue to slave positioning… The Mindset.
Too often, we as humans, think about what we should be doing, what it should look like to others, what our own limitations are and how due to being prideful, not accepting of them. These are all natural ways we deal with the advancing of age. Society has created the importance of “The Look”, and we are ever chasing such. I think it’s because we believe if we ever reach it, there is some sort of reward or nirvana at the end of this.. Guess what? There isnt.
Mind blown right? But, How can I say this? I say it because it’s truth. The truth doesn’t need anything more than just being. The truth can stand alone. The truth cannot be washed or wished away. The truth is as strong as steel and Mordor cannot destroy it like a simple ring. Ahh yes, I am a bit of a nerd.. but I digress..
Let us continue on point. The biggest question I have ever gotten about this topic is, ” What do I do when I can no longer kneel?” Kneeling is a very big way to show submission, obeisance, reverence to ones Master or Owner. Perhaps the biggest; well that’s socially acceptable anyways. So, here are a few things that I’ve come across, or come up with to help with this conundrum.
- Kneeling benches- The kneeling bench is padded, soft on the knees and takes roughly 75% of all pressure and pain out of ones legs, and puts it on the bench that one is sitting on. This is a great piece of furniture that should be in everyone’s repertoire and arsenal for use. The kneeling bench is lightweight and comes in many different adjustable heights. I highly recommend this for people of any age. Wearing flowing silks even covers the bench from view , so it appears the slave is kneeling unassisted. Also covering the bench with a light fur or blanket, will hide its existence. Magic of slaves.. who knew?
- Footstool or Ottoman- Can sit upon either, as then the slave is still sitting “below” the Master or Owner to show reverence and their submission. The rule of thumb is, as long as the one serving is a heads height below the one being served, the service is acceptable. For those people that think differently? I’d challenge your argument, as a slaves place is beneath her Master. In all ways. If the slave wants differently? Perhaps a more productive introspection is needed.
- Sitting “criss cross applesauce” or the “Gorean Freeperson seat”- Sitting on ground, or furs, or silks, or pillows with legs crossed, as most of us probably did as a child, is a great way to still be in a position of service. Also, this is a great position to look up at your Master with those eagerly begging slave eyes… . .. give me a minute; how I love those eyes…
Let’s continue! - A normal sized bar stool- Yes, even this position, sitting on a stool, is an acceptable form of service positioning. The slave’s head is still below their Masters.. all is good… (I apologize to the very vertically challenged Masters.. You matter also!)
So, as you can see, all are acceptable ways to still be in service. Also, most of those positions still allow the slave to wrap themselves around the Master’s legs.. which we all love.
I know how much that position does and means to a slave and Master. We don’t want to miss out on this.. ever.
In conclusion, I’ll say this. No matter what age, disability, handicap, injury we may or may not have, we can always find ways to offer service to the ones we love. We just need to think “outside the cage”, and come up with ways to still show ones dedication to another. I’m sure, if we all dropped what our ego thinks is right, and do what our heart tells us to do, we will find a balance of beauty in individual and as a couple. Try it out. Think with the heart. I promise you, everything will be as right as rain.
“Loved you before I even knew you.”
Yil,
Castar Daemon
Caste of Slavers
