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“Reality Check!”

“Reality Check!”

Okay, y’all…this girl has questions. That concludes THIS Reality Check. There will be more. Thanks for reading. ~ His Duchess

What is a Bullwhip?

What is a Bullwhip?

Bullwhips are not only fascinating to watch, but they are also remarkable tools that have been used for centuries by cowboys, farmers, and other individuals who work with livestock. Even though your intended use may vary, these whips are still typically made from a combination of materials, including leather and nylon. They are designed to…

Personal Growth Starts Within

Personal Growth Starts Within

 Self-introspection is the process of taking a step back and reflecting on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It’s an important part of personal growth because it allows us to identify areas where we can improve upon ourselves. Self-reflection helps us gain insight into who we are as individuals and how we interact with the world…

The Art of the Pinch

The Art of the Pinch

Thlipsosis is described as the fetish for being pinched or pinching a partner.Even if you don’t have a kink or fetish for this per se, you might be surprised at all the ways it can be used. The pinch is the squeezing of the skin whether it be with the thumb and the finger, with…

Not Just An Iconic Song

Not Just An Iconic Song

Dungeon nights were always interesting for her. Especially when she was a Monitor. One summer night she watched as the guests arrived. Some were new while others were frequent visitors. Then she focused on a striking couple that just walked in. Confident, immaculately dressed, and poised. They found a seat toward the front and sat…

4 Quick Essential Tips for a New Dominant

4 Quick Essential Tips for a New Dominant

Being a Dominant in the world of BDSM is an incredibly rewarding and fulfilling experience. But it’s not as simple as just taking control of your partner. There are certain responsibilities that come with being a Dominant. If you’re considering pursuing this lifestyle, here are four essential things that every Dominant must do. Set Clear…

Swimming With Sharks

Swimming With Sharks

she logged in less than five minutes ago and it has already begun. Checking her messages, she saw the usual “I saw your post/picture/comment” messages. Some completely benign; others positively Cringeworthy. Taking a deep breath, she settled in for another round of “Interesting or Cringey?” Another day…Another opportunity to learn. BDSM is like an ocean…with…

A Flood Of Emotions

A Flood Of Emotions

There have been MANY times that this girl has cried but wasn’t sad. Sharing the very first time with y’all today. It was a hot muggy Autumn day in Italy. As she greeted clients and dealt with paperwork her mind wandered. Tonight can’t get here fast enough!!! She had her bags packed and she was…

Oops!

Oops!

This one is boring. You will probably stop reading. Chances are that you’ll never read this Column again. But…here goes nothin’. The Bartender smiled and said, “What can I get ya, hon?” As she scanned the back patio she realized that she felt out of place. She turned back to the Bartender, smiled and said,…

Pillars And Puzzles

Pillars And Puzzles

Okay…so who likes puzzles? this girl certainly does! Yet some puzzles give her the blues lol. Like the ones you ALMOST have figured out but the final pieces prove to be a challenge that frustrates the hell out of us lol. Enough about that for now lol. So…It’s been a hectic week, y’all. this girl…