Enema Play 101
Regina Charlisa
September 8, 2021
Heyyy, y’all! Erotic Enemas are enjoyed by a wide number of the population. Dr. Joanne Denko coined the work Klismaphilia to describe the practices of
Latest Articles
submission
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy ...
Domination
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in ...
Discipline
Under The Umbrella We’ve already mentioned that many dynamics adopt a D/s (Dominant/submissive) or M/s (Master/slave) heirarchy, and ...
Ending a Power Exchange Dynamic
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
Bondage- Under the Umbrella
Last week we kicked things off by going over some of the common umbrella terms in the kink community, that are often mantles that cover the ...
Under the Umbrella
In our lifestyle, however it may manifest, we are encountered with numerous“umbrella terms”. These terms cover various other ...
Why Mindset Matters: The Power of Positivity in Power Exchange
Life isn’t all sunshine, orgasms and perfectly executed protocols. Sometimes, it’s tough. Work sucks. Bills pile up. Stress sneaks in, like ...
Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford ...
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder ...
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
Oh, The STRESS!
What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was ...
Whack, Smack, and Crack – Impact Play Fun
Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a ...
Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM
Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can ...
The Playful Guide to Wax Play
Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, ...
The Conversation Continues
R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. ...
Bondage 101: Valentine’s Day Edition
When it comes to celebrating Valentine’s Day, chocolates and roses are classic, but why not spice things up this year with something a ...
Needs vs. Wants in Relationships
The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between ...
Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips
Are you ready to to take a look into impact play? It is one of the number one kinks explored and whether you’re new to the scene or ...
Safety is the Subject
Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s ...
How to Keep the Spark Alive
Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons ...
Kink 101View More
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
Whack, Smack, and Crack – Impact Play Fun
Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a ...
The Playful Guide to Wax Play
Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, ...
Bondage 101: Valentine’s Day Edition
When it comes to celebrating Valentine’s Day, chocolates and roses are classic, but why not spice things up this year with something a ...
Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into ...
Embracing Your Kinky Self
Let’s explore the empowering and exhilarating intersection of BDSM and body positivity. Whether you’ve been in the scene for a while ...
Dominance and submission 101View More
submission
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy ...
Domination
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in ...
Ending a Power Exchange Dynamic
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence ...
Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford ...
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder ...
Oh, The STRESS!
What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was ...
Toy TimeView More
Horsing Around
That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the ...
Learning the Ropes
Rope has a special place in many of our hearts. Of all the types of bondage, rope bondage is the one that arguably looks the most artistic. ...
Anal Training
This is pretty much exactly what it sounds like, training your body for anal sex or larger anal toys (anal stretching). Some can be ...
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. ...
Creating the Perfect BDSM Dungeon at Home
Take your playtime to the next level by creating the perfect dungeon at home. Transforming your space into a private playground of pleasure ...
Slippery When Wet
Calm down, I am talking about lube. Lube is super important addition to all types of play, it can help prevent friction burn and ...
Explore Our Communities
Authors
All Articles
So, you’re really 24/7? Really?
SmutHustler
September 8, 2021
We hear the term 24/7 all the time in the lifestyle, I myself say it every day. But is there really any such thing? That
What to Expect From a Play Party?
Matthias Black
September 2, 2021
In laymen’s terms, a play party is usually a private event that hosted by someone in a private setting (Home, private or rented dungeon etc.)
The Cat’s Out Of The Bag!
Regina Charlisa
September 1, 2021
Okay…let’s get into this. Some of U/us spent years leading double lives. W/we work, socialize, raise families, etc…all while having desires and needs that most
Emotions
Matthias Black
August 27, 2021
It can be difficult for people to display emotion. Even when we harbor strong emotions, many of us were taught as children to suppress them,
“A Firm Foundation”
Regina Charlisa
August 27, 2021
foun·da·tion /founˈdāSH(ə)n/ (noun) an underlying basis or principle. Heyyy, y’all! E/every one of U/us can agree that O/our Thing has evolved through the years. What
Water Sports
Matthias Black
August 19, 2021
Water sports or golden showers (commonly abbreviated g.s.) is defined as playing with urine/pee/piss. It can be urinating on or in the submissive, making the
Regina Charlisa
August 18, 2021
‘Sup, Y/y’all! Who’s familiar with “Words have power?” this girl is fairly certain that W/we all have heard it or even said it before. But
Meeting People In The Scene
Matthias Black
August 12, 2021
“How do I meet people?” If I had a dollar for every time I read or was asked this question…Well, let’s just say, I would
“Rabbit Holes and Butterflies”
Regina Charlisa
August 11, 2021
fren·zy /ˈfrenzē/ noun a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior. Okay, y’all…let’s do this. Vicenza Italy, 1994. this girl and her hubby
BDSM and Sex
Matthias Black
August 8, 2021
A common misconception that causes havoc at times in the kink community is that BDSM, sex and/or love automatically must go together. While this statement
“W/we Need U/us!”
Regina Charlisa
August 4, 2021
How many of Y/you have seen the movie “Backdraft?” The firefighters had a motto whenever one of them was about to fall and the others