As I am writing this article, I am sitting in the chair of a hotel room, while two women (One semi-nude, one completely nude) are lying in bed together. The sounds next to me indicate that someone is enjoying a good morning finger-fuck at the moment. Low whispers, grateful moans, faint sounds of moisture…You get the idea.
They are within my visual perception and while I am enjoying the show, I will remain respectful of their boundaries for this is their moment.
This is what I mean by RESPECTFUL Voyeurism.
She is getting spanked now. Hmm…Her moans are intensifying. Good times.
So, as I was saying…According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, “Voyeurism” is the practice of obtaining sexual gratification from observing others or the practice of taking pleasure in observing something private, sordid, or scandalous while the term Voyeur, literally means “one who sees.”
Classically, the term has carried with it a sexual connotation, but it can also be applied to watching non-sexual activities. An example of this would be the concept of reality T.V shows. Usually, the voyeur is spying on intimate activities such as a person changing clothes or engaging in sexual activity, and feels pleasure or excitement while watching.
The sub is being mounted and while getting her nipples tortured…And I am now being asked to record and photograph.
One moment please…
Okay, where was I?
Currently, Voyeurism is seen as is a paraphiliac disorder…Meaning that this is a condition in which a person’s sexual arousal and gratification depend on fantasizing about and engaging in sexual behavior that is atypical and extreme. A paraphilia is considered a disorder when it causes distress or threatens to harm someone else.
The individual normally experiences sexual arousal when spying intentionally on unsuspecting people. The person being watched may be naked, disrobing, or engaging in sexual activities. The voyeur may also record these acts for later viewing. Unintentional viewing of such acts is not considered voyeuristic disorder. Voyeurs are also known as “Peeping Toms,” who use binoculars, mirrors, and recording cameras while peering through peepholes and windows.
The thing is, at least in my opinion, Respectful Voyeurism does not fall into the above description. In a figurative sense, take a look with what is going on right in front of me as I am writing this…
I have two women (Both of which are quite naked now) engaged in the midst of a rather intense session . They are aware of my presence (At least the woman who is currently flogging the other woman’s clit and inner thighs is aware. The recipient is otherwise occupied in the moment) they accept my being present and more importantly, they know that I will not interfere or distract them from their moment together.
It is all about respect.
