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Swimming With Sharks

Swimming With Sharks

she logged in less than five minutes ago and it has already begun. Checking her messages, she saw the usual “I saw your post/picture/comment” messages. Some completely benign; others positively Cringeworthy. Taking a deep breath, she settled in for another round of “Interesting or Cringey?” Another day…Another opportunity to learn. BDSM is like an ocean…with…

Oops!

Oops!

This one is boring. You will probably stop reading. Chances are that you’ll never read this Column again. But…here goes nothin’. The Bartender smiled and said, “What can I get ya, hon?” As she scanned the back patio she realized that she felt out of place. She turned back to the Bartender, smiled and said,…

Threesomes

Threesomes

While a threesome can be high on many people’s fantasy list, the fact remains that a third is a person, their feelings as well as their well-being should be addressed.  Adding a third for a threesome requires thoughtful care. As you may be aware, threesomes are one of the most common fantasies amongst couples…Whether you…

Ruined.

Ruined.

The message read, “Your outfit is in the garment bag in your closet. You have 1 hour.”she read it twice. And then her mind started racing. Had she missed something? Was this a celebration? A setup? As she started to let her Anxiety overtake her, she received another message. “Now u have 57 minutes. Not…

Learning the Ropes

Learning the Ropes

Rope has a special place in many of our hearts. Of all the types of bondage, rope bondage is the one that arguably looks the most artistic. It also makes for the best connection between rope rigger and the rope bunny. There are few things more intimate than running a rope along someone’s body and…

“Lock & Key”

“Lock & Key”

Once Upon A Time when she was on the other side of the slash… It was a hectic day at work. she worked outside and during December in Germany, driving a forklift can be brutal. As she drove toward the loading dock, she saw him. The Warehouse Supervisor. The Soldier in charge. Standing there, looking…

“One Without The Other”

“One Without The Other”

As the car stopped, her heart raced. she tried to focus…and listen. The goggles she wore to conceal her blindfold from others during the drive seemed heavier now. she could hear the driver’s side door opening. she felt a rush of air as He left the car. she smelled…was that jasmine? The car door closed….

Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster

Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster

When you play hard as a solo kinkster, it may be up to you to care for yourself in the hours and days following a scene. Being single in the BDSM scene can be fun…You get to try playing with people you meet at munches and events, you get to experiment with new kinks and…

“Showtime!”

“Showtime!”

“Let’s go, my toy soldier.” After sitting at the table in the back, watching everyone, it was time. The heat rushed to his face. His heart was pounding out of his chest. Searching Regina’s face for an indication of what he should be feeling, he was rewarded with a smile and a wink before being…

“Surviving The Fall”

“Surviving The Fall”

He did that thing she loved! she was in the shower, singing loudly, off key like a MF. she caught herself and laughed. Girl, that was a week ago! Regroup! she smiled as she remembered how He was prepared to pamper her, but she asked to be left alone. He graciously obliged her, but brought…