Some refer to the prostate as the male g-spot, and massaging it just right can blow the mind of about any guy. The prostate gland produces the majority of a man’s ejaculation fluid. The massaging of the prostate gland can have a significant impact on the sensation of a man’s orgasm; creating a longer, deeper and more sensuous orgasm. Besides an incredible orgasm, there have also been some health benefits linked to prostate massage as well.
The Prep:
- Prevent small cuts and scratches by making sure your fingernails are trimmed and filed.
- Make sure you have lots of lube! A water or silicone based lube will work well here.
- Make sure your hands are washed thoroughly.
- You may also want to consider gloves or a finger condom as well. If you go for gloves, latex free is always a good option in case of allergies.
- For the receiver, it also helps to use the bathroom before this type of play. It can help you to relax knowing you’re super clean back there, so take a shower beforehand and give it a little extra attention. If you want more certainty, you can use an enema, but it isn’t a necessity.
Where is it and how do you find it?
The prostate is a marble size gland that is located inside the anus about 3 to 4 inches on the front wall just behind the base of the penis but before the bladder. It should feel a little different than the surrounding tissue and will swell a bit with excitement.
Now that you’re prepared and you know where to go, let’s start massaging:
Tip: Before you get started, it can help to relax your partner by warming him up with a little foreplay first.
- Have him find a comfortable position, the most popular one is on the back.
- Lube up. Your fingers, his perineum (you know that area between his butt and his balls)and his anus. There can never be enough lube when it comes to anal.
- Start by massaging his perineum in a circular motion, gently putting pressure upwards into the body.
- When your partner is ready, start with one finger and gently massage the outside of his anus. Insert your finger gently and slowly so that your partner doesn’t tense up. You don’t want to just push on in there, you want to ease it on in.
- Gently curve your finger upwards towards the front of his body and slowly insert your finger about 3 to 4 inches until you feel the prostate. You may one to start with just an inch at a time and then gently pull back and forth, as your partner gets comfortable with sensation, especially if it’s a new experience.
- Massage the prostate in a back and forth, come hither or circular motion. It may even feel good to apply a little pressure for a few seconds, but be careful not to apply too much. Be wary of using the tips of your fingers to prevent any scratching.
- Keep applying the motion that feels best to your partner for an incredible orgasm they won’t soon forget.
Remember to always be gentle with your partner to prevent any internal damage and discomfort.
Tips: Don’t want to use your fingers, try a prostate massaging toy instead and you can also incorporate a handjob into the prostate massage to make for a more comfortable and exciting experience.
No partner, no problem, this technique can be self applied in conjunction with masturbation for an amazing orgasm.
The most important thing you can do is start slow, take your time, communicate and pay attention to your partner.
