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4 Quick Essential Tips for a New Dominant

4 Quick Essential Tips for a New Dominant

Being a Dominant in the world of BDSM is an incredibly rewarding and fulfilling experience. But it’s not as simple as just taking control of your partner. There are certain responsibilities that come with being a Dominant. If you’re considering pursuing this lifestyle, here are four essential things that every Dominant must do. Set Clear…

A Flood Of Emotions

A Flood Of Emotions

There have been MANY times that this girl has cried but wasn’t sad. Sharing the very first time with y’all today. It was a hot muggy Autumn day in Italy. As she greeted clients and dealt with paperwork her mind wandered. Tonight can’t get here fast enough!!! She had her bags packed and she was…

Oops!

Oops!

This one is boring. You will probably stop reading. Chances are that you’ll never read this Column again. But…here goes nothin’. The Bartender smiled and said, “What can I get ya, hon?” As she scanned the back patio she realized that she felt out of place. She turned back to the Bartender, smiled and said,…

Threesomes

Threesomes

While a threesome can be high on many people’s fantasy list, the fact remains that a third is a person, their feelings as well as their well-being should be addressed.  Adding a third for a threesome requires thoughtful care. As you may be aware, threesomes are one of the most common fantasies amongst couples…Whether you…

Learning the Ropes

Learning the Ropes

Rope has a special place in many of our hearts. Of all the types of bondage, rope bondage is the one that arguably looks the most artistic. It also makes for the best connection between rope rigger and the rope bunny. There are few things more intimate than running a rope along someone’s body and…

“Lock & Key”

“Lock & Key”

Once Upon A Time when she was on the other side of the slash… It was a hectic day at work. she worked outside and during December in Germany, driving a forklift can be brutal. As she drove toward the loading dock, she saw him. The Warehouse Supervisor. The Soldier in charge. Standing there, looking…

“One Without The Other”

“One Without The Other”

As the car stopped, her heart raced. she tried to focus…and listen. The goggles she wore to conceal her blindfold from others during the drive seemed heavier now. she could hear the driver’s side door opening. she felt a rush of air as He left the car. she smelled…was that jasmine? The car door closed….

Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster

Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster

When you play hard as a solo kinkster, it may be up to you to care for yourself in the hours and days following a scene. Being single in the BDSM scene can be fun…You get to try playing with people you meet at munches and events, you get to experiment with new kinks and…

“Surviving The Fall”

“Surviving The Fall”

He did that thing she loved! she was in the shower, singing loudly, off key like a MF. she caught herself and laughed. Girl, that was a week ago! Regroup! she smiled as she remembered how He was prepared to pamper her, but she asked to be left alone. He graciously obliged her, but brought…

How Surrounding Myself with Kinksters Made Me Finally Accept My Kinks

How Surrounding Myself with Kinksters Made Me Finally Accept My Kinks

As John Donne said, “No man is an island, entire of itself…Every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.” While that applies to your favorite hobbies like reading, video games, or raising an army of potted succulents, it also applies to your kinks too. As I found out, being surrounded…