“How do I create a scene?”
This is a question that seems to get asked a lot, but the truth is, a scene is personal. Limits, wants, and desires are different for everyone. However, these are a few helpful tips you can use to design the scene of your fantasies.
Location, Location, Location
Where will your scene take place? Will it be inside or outside? Will you move your bottom at any point? Will noise be a problem at this location? Knowing your location well and what advantages and disadvantages it offers is very important. These are all things that must be considered and planned out to execute a great scene.
Amenities at a Location
Now that you have a location, think about what it offers and how you can take advantage of it. Items such as furniture, household items, windows, doors, and so on can be utilized to carry out an incredible scene. In addition to what the location provides, think of any items you might want to bring in, if it is not available.
Goals and Fantasies
Thinking about your goals and the fantasies you want to fulfill in a scene, in advance, will help you prepare so that you can focus on what’s happening in your scene, not what you need to make it happen. What are your overall goals? What sensations do want to take your bottom through? What are your bottom’s limits? Clearly define out the fantasies that you want achieve so you can properly set the scene.
Setting Up the Scene
Now that you have your location, know what it offers and your goals worked out, it’s time to think about how it will all come together. What implements will you need to achieve those goals? How long will each phase run? Will there be music? Will there be a need for drop cloths? Do you have everything you need for aftercare? Take yourself through the scene and think of anything and everything you might need. Set up your implements, tools, and accessories. Having everything laid out in the best position will allow your scene to continue without rigidness or awkward fumbling around. Don’t forget your safety tools, this is very important and can be the difference between “It didn’t go quite like I expected” and “It went horribly wrong”.
Getting it Started
How will you begin the scene? How will you help place your bottom in the right mindset? Have a clear plan for warming up and how you will begin with your bottom. Getting your bottom into the correct mindset is critical for them to experience what you want them to.
What Does the Action Look Like
What does the action look like as you progress through the scene? It’s important that the overall strategy of the session isn’t broken and the fantasy is kept intact. This is where prior planning comes into play. A plan allows you keep the scene on track and help you keep your bottom in the right mindset.
How Does It End
Scenes shouldn’t just abruptly stop. There should be a plan to start bringing them down. Each fantasy is different and requires a different “cool down”.
Aftercare
For me, the aftercare is taking care of any wounds that need to be cleaned and handled. But every bottom is different and you need to think about what your bottom needs. Do they need extra care or attention? You must know your bottom, so this can be preplanned and not come off rigid. Snacks and lots of water or Gatorade to help replenish and rehydrate, are always good to have on hand.
No matter what you are looking to accomplish with your scene, prior planning and thought can help you make it perfect. A well thought out plan, executed properly, is the difference between “just another scene” and “holy shit what just happened”. Understanding these things will help you deliver unforgettable scenes that all involved will remember for some time to come.
