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Getting Into Your Dominant Frame of Mind

Getting Into Your Dominant Frame of Mind

Whether your dynamic is a 24/7 live in relationship, a long distance relationship, or even that chance encounter with a wonderful submissive at you met at your local dungeon, you better believe that you want to be in your Dominant Mode frame of mind. You may work in an office doing the corporate minion thing….

“One Without The Other”

“One Without The Other”

As the car stopped, her heart raced. she tried to focus…and listen. The goggles she wore to conceal her blindfold from others during the drive seemed heavier now. she could hear the driver’s side door opening. she felt a rush of air as He left the car. she smelled…was that jasmine? The car door closed….

Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster

Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster

When you play hard as a solo kinkster, it may be up to you to care for yourself in the hours and days following a scene. Being single in the BDSM scene can be fun…You get to try playing with people you meet at munches and events, you get to experiment with new kinks and…

“Tune Up Time!”

“Tune Up Time!”

“Use your words.” she stood across the bed from Him. she made a fist and dug her thumbnail into her palm until it hurt. It felt…GLORIOUS. But it wasn’t enough. He stood completely still, eyes locked on her. He glanced at her hand. “Still nothing, huh?” His face changed. Was that…a frown? “Humble.” she immediately…

“Surviving The Fall”

“Surviving The Fall”

He did that thing she loved! she was in the shower, singing loudly, off key like a MF. she caught herself and laughed. Girl, that was a week ago! Regroup! she smiled as she remembered how He was prepared to pamper her, but she asked to be left alone. He graciously obliged her, but brought…

“Okay, I’ll say it…AGAIN”

“Okay, I’ll say it…AGAIN”

Heyyy, Y/y’all! Let’s talk about Labels. Some find them helpful or even a requirement; others find them unnecessary and frustrating. Truth is, W/we all believe in O/our bones that W/we know the best way to describe U/us and that’s all that matters. If folks don’t get it, oh well. Noted and understood, F/fam. But let’s…

“The Leap”

“The Leap”

she took a deep breath and gathered herself. It was time. she had to. But then the doubts and fears crept in. What will happen? Will this change everything? Maybe it will change how He feels. And then…she took another deep and recited in her head, “Respect. Communication. Trust. Honesty.” Then she felt ready. Yes…she’s…

“Kink With A Wink”

“Kink With A Wink”

she was up early, prepping for the class she would be teaching later that morning. He asked if she was fully prepared. “Yes, Sir. this slave enjoys teaching this module, Signore.” she wondered…did she sound arrogant? Could He tell how nervous she was??? Dammit! Of course! That’s why He’s so quiet! “Let’s help you remain…

“Just. Like. That.”

“Just. Like. That.”

she had a rough day. After being pulled in a million different directions and putting out fires that she didn’t even start, she just needed peace. After Daddy called her and listened to her venting He quietly responded, “I’ll fix it, baby. When you complete your tasks, go ahead and soak in the tub. See…

“Wait…WHAT?!”

“Wait…WHAT?!”

“I suppose you think it’s acceptable to do a sloppy job. Time to teach you another lesson.” The words stung like a Dragon’s Tail. she knew the next few hours will suck. “Apologies, Sir.” As her heart raced, she braced herself for the consequences of her actions. He replied, barely above a whisper, “Noted.” As…