Male submission
By Vayren Aram These two words alone can invoke a myriad of images. Type those two pretty little words into the search bar of your favorite porn site and you are bound to be met with a wide (yet at the same time narrow) variety of videos and pictures. Media covering everything from sissy boys…
Vayren Aram
The Limits Lie
Written by Vayren Aram “Slaves have no limits”. We hear this spouted far and wide all over online spaces and places such as Facebook and Fetlife but have we ever stopped for a moment to ponder where this belief comes from and the implications that arise from it? Could this belief perhaps be due to…
The Cane Massage
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear the word cane and your brain immediately goes to that sharp, stinging crack that makes your eyes water just thinking about it. And yes, we will absolutely get there. But…
kinky smurf
Chemistry +Compatibility=Synergy
She sat in her car, reflecting on what her friend just told her. “At first, I was GLAD we started doing kinky stuff! Knowing he was as excited as I was! But lately…the spark is gone! He still wants to try this toy or that kink; and I just wanna watch YouTube until I fall…
Regina Charlisa
submission
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy dynamic. A large portion of that involved certain responsibilities that fall on the Dominant, but they are only part of the dynamic. This week we’re going to have a look at…
Bad Daddy Drew
Domination
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in establishing and maintaining discipline. While discussing this I made mention of Dominants and submissives, which are both common roles each partner takes on in a BDSM based dynamic. The next couple…
Discipline
Under The Umbrella We’ve already mentioned that many dynamics adopt a D/s (Dominant/submissive) or M/s (Master/slave) heirarchy, and the purpose is to provide stability and training for the submissive to allow them to better serve their Dominant. To achieve this goal requires discipline and disciplinary action. Today we’re going to break down some of those…
Ending a Power Exchange Dynamic
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence involved means that a Dominant has a profound responsibility to navigate the transition with care, respect and ethical integrity. Whether the relationship was lifelong or short term, whether it ended amicably or due to conflict,…
SmutHustler
Bondage- Under the Umbrella
Last week we kicked things off by going over some of the common umbrella terms in the kink community, that are often mantles that cover the broader basis of what we’re into. Now it’s time to start disecting these terms and get a closer look at what each part part means, starting with BDSM and…
Under the Umbrella
In our lifestyle, however it may manifest, we are encountered with numerous“umbrella terms”. These terms cover various other umbrella terms, all of whichhelp us to identify what part/s of the lifestyle we’re into. Here we’ll bediscussing some of those terms and breaking them down, to help new andexperienced members alike to understand what this terms…