What Makes a “Good” Dominant
Anyone who talks about BDSM often spends a lot of time talking about the posers, wannabes, and fake Dominants…Myself included. Part of it is out of necessity. It seems as if every single day, I come across someone who dropped every bit of common sense in the name of submission. These are the people need…
Matthias Black
Let’s Go to a Play Party
What is a Play Party? A Play Party is a social gathering of people with an interest in kink or BDSM that usually happens in a more private setting. Unlike Munches, the gathering will typically have kink activities going on. This may include everything from instructional guides to full-on scenes. Some Play Parties will have…
SmutHustler
Creating the Scene
“How do I create a scene?” This is a question that seems to get asked a lot, but the truth is, a scene is personal. Limits, wants, and desires are different for everyone. However, these are a few helpful tips you can use to design the scene of your fantasies. Location, Location, Location Where will…
Aftercare
What is aftercare? Scenes can be both physically and emotionally demanding and intense. Aftercare is simply the care and extra consideration, both physically and emotionally, that is given after a scene. It is also important to remember that aftercare is not just for bottoms, but can be for Tops as well. A Top experiences physical…
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The Wide World of Gags
Gags are generally used to inhibit use of the mouth by inserting something into it to prevent speech or noise or to keep it open. In the world of kink, the purpose for the use of gag can be so much more far-reaching. It could be the sight, control, or even the function it…
Let’s Turn the Heat Up in Here
I’m talking about Temperature play and for this post specifically wax play. One of my absolute favorite tools for scenes. Let’s discuss some basics. This list is by no means comprehensive and you should defiantly do your homework but here are some definite points that you should think about and use. First let’s talk Prep….
Let’s Get Deep
Between porn and all the information out there on the internet, deepthroating can be intimidating for many. What if I throw up? What if it won’t go down there? Will I be able to breathe? Never fear, your deep throating friend is here. This is just a quick look at training up and giving deep…
Talk to Me Dirty
“Shut up slut and just breath deep while I whip your dirty little cunt.” Dirty talk is something that I throughly enjoy. During a scene, my primal nature takes over and the words begin to flow out and for me, they are rough, dirty and may even come out as harsh. But it’s all part…
I’m Begging You…
“Begging is a term for the act of pleading with another person for something”-Kinkly.com When it comes to begging both the verbal and the physical play an important role and one should decide what attributes interest them, and when and how they prefer it and express it to their partner. Some Physical Signs Of Begging:…
Anal Training
This is pretty much exactly what it sounds like, training your body for anal sex or larger anal toys (anal stretching). Some can be reluctant to try anal and most of the time, it’s because they think it might be painful. Can it be? Of course, but it’s not suppose to be. If you’re interested…