The Meaning and History of the Jockstrap
By Vayren Aram Invented in 1874 C.F. Bennet originally for bicycle messengers and delivery men, also known as bike jockeys, the jockstrap is an ever prevalent part of both the gay and straight culture. During the early 1900’s, jockstraps became massively popular garments for those involved in contact sports given the jock’s ability to offer…
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The Cane Massage
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear the word cane and your brain immediately goes to that sharp, stinging crack that makes your eyes water just thinking about it. And yes, we will absolutely get there. But…
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Role, Interrupted
What happens to your dynamic when life changes the landscape, and how you find your way through it together By kinky smurf There’s a version of your dynamic that exists when everything is aligned. When the structure is present, the roles are fully inhabited, and the connection between you hums with the quiet certainty of…
Surrender and Serenity
“There’s a quiet power in letting go.” As He said this to her, she knew in her heart it was true. Well…at least she knew it was true NOW. Even with all her experience, she struggled with it. So much so that, early on in her journey, it felt like she was in the ocean,…
Regina Charlisa
Chemistry +Compatibility=Synergy
She sat in her car, reflecting on what her friend just told her. “At first, I was GLAD we started doing kinky stuff! Knowing he was as excited as I was! But lately…the spark is gone! He still wants to try this toy or that kink; and I just wanna watch YouTube until I fall…
The Cautionary Tale of Being a Master
It’s Not Just the Crown You Wear Disclaimer – These are my views and I have screwed the pooch more than a few times in over 20 years of leading a beautiful and amazing submissive woman. Enjoy. Many people love the fantasy of Dominance. The commanding presence and the control. The title of Master just…
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Masochism
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a sadist’s wants and needs in a dynamic, they usually pair well with the other side of that coin, a masochist. Today we’ll be having a look at masochism including some things that a…
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Sadism
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s own well-being. Awareness is an important thing for either side of the slash in any type of BDSM dynamic, and is going to weigh in heavily with this week’s topic: Sadism. Sadism…
submission
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy dynamic. A large portion of that involved certain responsibilities that fall on the Dominant, but they are only part of the dynamic. This week we’re going to have a look at…
Domination
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in establishing and maintaining discipline. While discussing this I made mention of Dominants and submissives, which are both common roles each partner takes on in a BDSM based dynamic. The next couple…