BDSM D/s Contracts…Are They Worth It?
A constant feature of any media portrayal of power exchange relationships and a common centerpiece of Master/slave fantasies: the BDSM D/s contract. While not legally binding, it does outline the entire relationship.It is typically something the D-Type crafts in private, and gives to their s-type(s) to sign. The contract outlines all of the things that…
A Reminder
Okay… So this girl was halfway through writing an article, took a break and saw a beautiful post on Instagram so now…new topic! Anyway,the post was a snippet from a heavy Impact scene. The bottom was bent over a bench, hands bound, gagged and blindfolded. Some refer to this as a Sensory Play Trinity lol….
Being “Kinky Enough”
Identifying as kinky, or just being interested in learning more about kink, is an entirely personal and individualized experience. However, Do not think that to belong to kink groups or to visit kinky spaces you must qualify as “Kinky Enough”. Whether you have twenty years of kink experience or just decided twenty minutes ago that…
Uh Oh!
“Is there something you want to tell me about?” she stopped cold and surveyed her surroundings. The whoosh of the ceiling fan was the only sound in the room. There was a chair positioned in the center of the room. A covered table was near the chair. A snap of His fingers jolted her back….
An Unexpected Lesson
“Wake up. NOW, bitch.” He was shaking her foot. she was startled as she opened her eyes and tried to focus. And right at that moment, He dragged her out of the bed by her ankles. she tried to brace her head; then realized it probably looked like she was struggling. Not good. Once she…
Enema Play 101
Heyyy, y’all! Erotic Enemas are enjoyed by a wide number of the population. Dr. Joanne Denko coined the work Klismaphilia to describe the practices of people who enjoyed the use of enemas as a sexual stimulant. Enema Play has a strong appeal to those who enjoy anal stimulation. For those who are into Dominance and…
So, you’re really 24/7? Really?
We hear the term 24/7 all the time in the lifestyle, I myself say it every day. But is there really any such thing? That would mean that life never gets in the way and that vanilla never comes into play. So, what exactly does 24/7 mean? Well if you take it literally, it means…
Emotions
It can be difficult for people to display emotion. Even when we harbor strong emotions, many of us were taught as children to suppress them, so we hold back. Some of us were taught, that because strong emotions like anger or sorrow are difficult to see or make others uncomfortable we should cover them up….
“A Firm Foundation”
foun·da·tion /founˈdāSH(ə)n/ (noun) an underlying basis or principle. Heyyy, y’all! E/every one of U/us can agree that O/our Thing has evolved through the years. What W/we can NOT seem to agree on is if all of the changes are good ones or not lol. So let’s take a look at a few things that will…
Water Sports
Water sports or golden showers (commonly abbreviated g.s.) is defined as playing with urine/pee/piss. It can be urinating on or in the submissive, making the submissive drink urine or any other urine oriented BDSM activity. There is debate as to whether water sports qualify as “edge play”…It may or may not, depending on the practitioners…