“FOCUS, woman!” she was supposed to be reviewing a Lesson Plan. But instead…she was thinking of HIM. He was so attentive and accessible. she can think of one way to show her affection, admiration and appreciation if He will be gracious enough to allow it. she is always eager, yet patient…inhaling His scent, so intoxicating. His presence looming over her, making her feel safe. Ah, yes….she will show Him what He means to her…hopefully she will get another opportunity. she will not leave out any details; He’ll feel like a God among men.
When it comes to demonstrating affection and admiration, who truly enjoys it more? The giver, or the receiver?
this girl is a pleaser by nature. There are many like her. Yes, the act is amazing from start to finish…the scents, the sight, the sounds, the taste, the sensations…ALL of it. There are a lot of people who would gladly rather give than receive. And the question is WHY? For this girl it is all about Worship. Worship is defined as: The feeling or expression of reverence and adoration. For clarification, and to put this into perspective, reverence is a feeling of deep respect, and adoration is a feeling of profound love and admiration.
Worship is the physical expression of deep respect, profound love and admiration. Dominants can worship submissives as well. As a matter of fact, some will even teach submissives how to Worship. So everyone wins, right?
One of the more simplistic yet sensual ways to ease into Worship is bathing. Bubbles, a washcloth and a person willing to be worshipped is all Y/you need.Those who regularly use bathing as a form of worship feel the preparation for the bath is as much a part of the worship as the bathing itself. Water temperature, texture of the washcloth and towels, everything to be used needs to convey worship and reverence for T/their body. Bath salts, oils are candles are delicious additions. Gently guide T/them into the tub, letting the ripple of warm water wash over T/their body as T/they slide in. Begin with a caressing wash, using Y/your hands or the washcloth, letting the water pour over T/their body. Let it wash over the shoulders and over the chest. Pamper, caress and care for T/them. Y/your strokes and caresses should cover every inch of T/them.
If getting in the shower or tub doesn’t do it, begin with a simple erotic massage. What makes this different from Y/your usual scrub and rub is the time Y/you take to appreciate and worship every inch of T/their body. Be generous with the duration of the massage and the amount of oil. Let Y/your hand linger EVERYWHERE Y/you touch T/them. And it doesn’t have to stop with Y/your hands; appreciate T/them with Y/your mouth as well!
Worship is about the One W/we worship. If W/we happen to be aroused during worship, that is a bonus but not a requirement. Worship is not about how this girl feels once she is done; it’s about how The FLYGOD feels once she is done.
So…why does this girl worship The FLYGOD?
First, it comes naturally. When someone is influential in O/our life and is doing things for U/us, it’s natural to want to compliment T/them. Worship is a way of complimenting The FLYGOD for the things He does for this girl and how He makes her feel. Worship costs this girl nothing, but means everything. By opening herself up to worshipping The FLYGOD, this girl is giving herself to Him, the One who cares for her and accepts her. The One who knows this girl most intimately. The One who gives her the outlet to be exactly who she is without judgment. The One she trusts completely.
Second reason is Love. It’s that simple. When Y/you love someone, Y/you want to show T/them in as many ways as possible. The physical expression of this is just as important as the words. While sitting at The FLYGOD’S’ feet, this girl may speak the words, she may show the feelings and He will understand and accept both graciously. But when this girl is graciously allowed to put her hands and mouth on The FLYGOD and pour into Him the love that she feels…that will speak to Him on His natural level of being. It will touch The FLYGOD’S subconscious and His heart.
The third reason for worship is Gratitude. It is easy to take someone for granted. By worshiping The FLYGOD, this girl is thanking Him for everything He does for her. To convey how honored she feels to be His.
Lastly, W/we worship because W/we need to worship. When W/we put worship into O/our daily routine, O/our dynamic could grow stronger and become more intimate. And this will make U/us want to worship more. Why? Because W/we will feel overjoyed realizing just how awesome the dynamic really is. If this girl doesn’t take the time to demonstrate how great The FLYGOD is to her, she misses an opportunity. The more she worships The FLYGOD for His love and Dominance, the more she will experience His love and Dominance. It could be the same or something different for Y/your dynamic(s). Worship is yet another way to learn about each O/other.
A final thought…the purpose of Worship is not an orgasm, though it can be a GLORIOUS bonus. Go all in. The intimacy and honesty achieved through Worship is unparalleled and absolutely amazing.
~His Duchess
