He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking everything in…her hair, wild. her eyes, closed. her breathing, ragged. her body, covered in goosebumps. her hands, BUSY. her moans, GLORIOUS. He walked over to her, bent down, grabbed a handful of hair, then whispered, “Singing my favorite song! Time for a duet! Eyes open. NOW.” He stood above her beside the bed as He joined her in ecstasy. Their gaze upon each other, intoxicating. Their breathing, ragged. Their hands, BUSY. A GLORIOUS duet.
May brings more than flowers, y’all!!! Welcome to Masturbation May!!! this girl would like to talk about Mutual Masturbation for a bit. Mutual Masturbation (You and another person/other people pleasuring yourselves together) doesn’t get the credit it deserves! And it’s definitely worth discussion.
It’s fairly safe and can help you improve your ability to explore your body as well as others. And it pretty much guarantees a happy ending for all involved lol. A few things that are AWESOME during Mutual Masturbation are…
Sucking on your fingers or theirs while you play
Staying connected by draping your leg over theirs
Eye contact and verbal cues (encouraging, degrading, or somewhere in between.)
Teasing yourselves with a toy
Anyone feeling a little shy OR have no issues about giving yourself a hand with an audience? There’s a position for that!
Side-to-side. This one works for all, but it’ll appeal especially to anyone who’s nervous about masturbating together. You can lie or sit side-by-side to get your rub on. Eye contact makes all seggsual hotter. This position makes it optional so you can glance their way whenever you’re ready.
Mutual Missionary. This hands-on take on the missionary position has one of you lying on your back and the other on top, either straddling or kneeling between their legs while you pleasure yourselves. If one of you isn’t feeling the action but still want to be there for the other, this vantage point is a perfect compromise.
Full Frontal. Raise your hand if you like to watch and being watched! Sit facing each other with legs spread wide for a full-frontal view that will completely satisfy your inner exhibitionist and voyeur.
Remember to apply the following things to all aspects of intimacy including mutual masturbation. (Identifying the Four Pillars of BDSM for context.)
*Communication is key!!! Talk openly about what feels good, what doesn’t, and what you both want to try. (Communication, Trust, Honesty, and Respect)
*Start slow! Begin with gentle touches and gradually increase intensity based on each other’s cues. Use all six (Yep, SIX!) senses. Sight, touch, taste, sound, smell, and instinct. (Respect)
*Pay attention to body language. Notice how your partner responds to different touches and adjust accordingly. (Nonverbal Communication)
*Explore different techniques. Try various strokes, pressures, positions, and speeds to find what works best for each other. (Trust)
*Focus on pleasure! Prioritize mutual enjoyment and don’t worry about performance. No “let’s get this over with” energy. (Honesty)
Remember, Mutual Masturbation is about exploring intimacy and pleasure together. Be open, respectful, and communicative to enhance the experience.
Have fun, y’all!!!
~ His Duchess
