Between porn and all the information out there on the internet, deepthroating can be intimidating for many. What if I throw up? What if it won’t go down there? Will I be able to breathe? Never fear, your deep throating friend is here. This is just a quick look at training up and giving deep throating a real go.
Get a Gaggle of Practice
The gag reflex, the nemesis of the deep throat. With time and practice, this foe can be conquered. First off, explore your gag reflex. With a finger or as most suggest, your toothbrush, slowly push it towards the back of your throat. You don’t want to make yourself gag, you just want to push the toothbrush to the edge of gagging. Hold it there for as long as possible without making yourself gag. Now that you know where that threshold is, you can train it. Twice a day, with your toothbrush (or finger), push towards the back of your throat and try to suppress the gag reflex. Hold it back there, without moving it in and out for a few seconds at a time. Remember to breathe through your nose while practicing and before you know it, you’ll see a difference. You’ll be able to hold the toothbrush back there longer and your gag reflex won’t be nearly as sensitive. Now that you know where your gag reflex is and how to tame it, let’s take that practice to the next level. Try it on something a bit bigger and phallic in shape. Let me stop you right here, even though it’s one of the objects most widely depicted when you look at deep throating, I strongly advise against the use of a banana and really most phallic shaped food. Why? Quite simply, they have the potential to break off and become lodged in the throat. You can see the headline now, “Individual dies after fellatio practice goes wrong” and you don’t want to be part of it, so when practicing, stick to something more solid that won’t break off. A jelly dildo works great. Now that your gag reflex isn’t as sensitive, just like with the toothbrush, ease it towards the back of the throat. When you feel the stoping point, you may gag but keep going and make a yawn, opening the mouth and extending the tongue flat and slightly out. The positioning of the throat and tongue are perfect when make a yawn, allowing your throat to open up. Practice breathing through your nose and just being comfortable with the feeling. Now, try slowly moving it back and forth. Stay calm, this new element might induce enough gagging at first to make you hurl, don’t worry, that’s what the practice is for. Try, try, try again. It can take time to be able to get to the point where you are comfortable and not coughing and gagging. Don’t rush, remain calm, and just keep breathing using some of these techniques below.
Learn to Breathe
It seems so easy, inhale then exhale, but with your man or a dildo inside your throat, it’s just a little different. You’ve tamed that gag reflex and have practiced keeping it in check, now let’s talk about breathing when the rhythm really gets going. First, breathing through your nose is important, but what happens if your man is blocking the airway when he’s inside? Remember deepthroating is only a part of the overall blowjob package, you don’t want to just keep his penis in your throat until you turn blue, that’s no fun for anyone. Practice taking breaths through your nose as you move your mouth up his penis. What if you need a breath while you’re down there? Don’t panic, relax and smile. Yes, make a smile, this will open up the sides of your mouth, allowing you to get a breath.
Get into position
When you’re ready to put all that practice into action, find a good position. While you can deepthroat in all types of positions, there are a few which make you feel more naturally open. One of the most popular positions is to lie flat on the back with the head off the edge of the bed. Other positions like 69 or kneeling in front of your man, can be good because it can allow you to face the penis towards the throat. However height differences can make these a little tricky. You really want to experiment and see what works best for you and for the shape of your man.
Get Wet
Making sure there’s plenty of lubrication going on is very important. After all what fun is the slip n’ slide without any water? Generally this isn’t an issue because deepthroating causes a lot of saliva. You just want to make sure you’re working up to deep throating while giving a blowjob, not trying to just start off with it.
This is not a comprehensive guide to deepthroating, just a place to start your journey. Remember not to rush it, practice, breathe and have an amazing time.
