the toy.
“You disgust me.” The words cut through the air and straight into his heart. He fell to his knees on the cold bathroom floor. “Forgive this toy, please, Regina.” He held his head down. “Stand up. You aren’t worthy of kneeling at my feet. Hands above your head, soldier.” As he did as he was told, she reached for him and he flinched. “NOW you’ve fucked up. Hands BEHIND your head now.” She stepped toward him. He changed his breathing and braced himself. God, she smelled good. Her lips quivered then formed a grin. The rise and fall of her breasts was hypnotic. Snap out of it! He said to himself. he tried to mentally and physically brace himself for whatever She did next. And then, She broke the silence with the words, “Look at me. Today’s Lesson is…be careful what you wish for, toy.” It happened before he had a chance to even register it. She had his cock in Her hand, firmly, then pulled on it so slowly that he wasn’t sure what he felt. But then came the RUSH. Pain. Immediately followed by – bliss? Wtf! But as his toes curled and relaxed, he was yearning for Her to do it again. Say something! NOW! “Please teach this toy, Regina.” And when She did it again…wow.
HER.
“he thinks he’s slick; begging for forgiveness won’t spare him!” She thought to herself. She had done her research. She made sure that the toy had done his as well. The little hints and hiccups all led to this moment. As the toy dropped to his knees, She took the opportunity to survey the setup. Scissors, gauze, ice in bucket, knee hi stockings, leather gloves…the stage was meticulously set. It’s Go Time, Regina! After She commanded the toy to stand up and put his hands behind his head She saw him trying to inhale her scent. he was looking at her from her shoes to Her blouse. She took a step toward the toy. “Look at me. Today’s Lesson is…be careful what you wish for, toy.” And then….she took a deep breath and as she slowly exhaled she grabbed his manhood in her hand and pulled on it slowly. the toy winced in pain…then he gasped as She watched his toes curl. “Please teach this toy, Regina.” She breathed in, exhaled, then pulled again. The wince and gasp was longer this time, and a moan escaped his lips as well. As the toy stiffened then relaxed; She smiled. So far so good. Time to bind the toy’s balls with the knee highs.
Whewwwww…..Walk it off, Y/y’all! this girl is tackling a somewhat sensitive topic today. Stay with her…it has some information to expand Y/your knowledge and understanding of Kink. Breathe, G/gentlemen lol. The term CBT is the acronym for Cock and Ball Torture. The mere thought of CBT will give M/men either an instant erection or compel T/them to instinctively grab T/themselves, squirm and yell, “Fuck that!!!” while E/everyone else may be thinking, “Wow!” Well, if Y/you’re reading this and fall on either end of that spectrum or even somewhere in between, keep reading, F/fam lol. So, what’s the appeal of CBT, anyway? There are many reasons why people are drawn to it. It speaks to both Sadists and masochists and that’s partially due to the agony of the pain as well as the exhilaration from the agony. The fact that it is the most sensitive part of the body just makes playing around with it even more exciting. With such a wide range of tools available now, CBT can also be endured alone for the ultimate in sadomasochistic bliss.
Still here? Hang in there!
Confused/Curious about Cock and Ball Torture? A few things to remember…
- CBT can free your inner masochist! The penis and surrounding area is full of sensitive nerve endings that are just begging to be played with. Time for some Scientific Stuff lol. Stimulating those nerve endings through CBT causes waves of endorphins (the body’s natural painkiller) to be released. The effect is similar to that of being under the influence and the result is an incredibly intense “natural high.” In some cases it can actually lead to an altered and euphoric state of consciousness.
- Increased blood flow to the genitals causes them to become engorged. As a result, CBT is often processed as pleasure rather than pain. The body releases adrenaline and the genitals become further enlarged, greatly intensifying the experience. Normally so readily associated with pleasure, the cock and balls have now become a target for punishment and pain. This confuses the body and thus a new pleasure/pain association is discovered.
- CBT can create another emotional connection with your partner. Not only is it extremely satisfying to please your playmate but the level of trust between you will become stronger.
Be Safe!!!
The biggest concern when it comes to CBT is circulation. Increased pressure means that there is a danger of cutting off circulation completely. It is extremely important to watch out for symptoms such as a loss in sensation, swelling or a loss of color. Common injuries as a result of CBT include abrasions, bruises and small cuts. In time these will heal, but it is a good idea to treat with an ice pack to reduce the swelling and apply some antiseptic cream to cuts to avoid infection. It’s quite normal to experience a dull and painful ache in the testicles after CBT, or as we like to call it “blue balls.” It might last for a prolonged period of time after your play has ended. If the pain persists or you notice any abnormalities including swelling or blood spots underneath the skin, please see a doctor as soon as possible. NOTE: There is another article by Matthias Black about Doctors and kink Y/y’all should check out if Y/you haven’t already.
Make sure you always play SAFE and stop if you’re unsure!
Some Do’s and Don’ts regarding CBT are…
DO Trim pubic hair for a clear view and to avoid snagging.
DO Alleviate pressure every 20-30 minutes to restore circulation fully.
DO Avoid genital bindings that cannot be easily untied/removed.
DO Keep ‘quick release’ tools like EMT scissors and cock ring cutters readily available.
DO Be gentle with piercings.
DO Stop immediately if you notice a loss of sensation, swelling, numbness or loss of colour
DO Discuss boundaries and a safe word beforehand.
DO Go slowly and gradually increase intensity while monitoring reactions.
DO Stop immediately if the pain starts to spread to other areas.
DO Avoid anything that will seriously wrench or twist the genitals.
DON’T Leave clamps on for long periods of time.
DON’T Leave CBT devices/weights on for prolonged periods or through the night.
DON’T Tie the balls to anything else because any sudden knee-jerk reaction could result in serious damage!
DON’T Bind the penis/scrotum too tightly – you don’t want to cut off circulation.
DON’T Insert anything into the urethra without adequate lubrication and sterilization.
DON’T Squeeze the penis too hard, it could damage the erectile tissue.
DON’T Use sharp, hard hits.
DON’T Let go of weights suddenly; lower them down gradually and gently.
Still here? It’s almost over so hang in there!
CBT Play often involves using weights, bondage, impact or the hands…a little flick anywhere in that area can cause a LOT of pain, agony and/or pleasure. As with anything else W/we do in O/our Thing, research, communication, preparation and safety are CRUCIAL!!! Cannot stress that enough!!! There are so many ways in which you can reach your CBT goals and most will be unique and specific to Y/you and Y/yours. So remember THIS…W/we must always DIG IN before W/we dive in, Y/y’all. And that means do more research than just watching CBT porn. Seriously.
Most importantly, take it easy. Process everything that happened individually and with each other. Enjoy some much needed healing time so that Y/you’re ready for a repeat performance in no time!
Thanks for hanging in there, Y/y’all! Hopefully it was worth it! And while it’s perfectly fine to not be a fan of CBT, it’s never okay to judge the ones who are.
Until next time, Y/y’all.
~His Duchess
