Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example…
Elder 1, 78 years old: “Do y’all still have meet ups? You know, eat, drink, laugh, sizing each other up? Hee hee”
Elder 2, 81 years old: “We used to meet up once a month at the Crab Joint. Everyone thought we were a club or something. We was all undercover back then.”
Elder 3, 70 years old: What do y’all call them?”
this girl: “Munches. Do you know how they came up with that name?”’
Elder 2: “Hell if I know! I just remember eating my crabs, cracking my jokes, and keeping my hands to myself!”
Munches are casual gatherings for those in the BDSM/alt lifestyle community that have a rich history that goes back decades. From their small beginnings to modern-day, munches have played a vital role in building and connecting the BDSM/Alt lifestyle community.
“Ok, cool, info! But, how did munches begin?”
In the 1970s-1980s, informal gatherings were held in private homes, bars, clubs, et cetera.
The attendees consisted of tightly knit groups, and relied on word-of-mouth and print (remember flyers? lol) to get the word out.
In the 1990s-2000s, Internet and online forums revolutionized communication and organization.
Munches became more structured, with designated hosts and venues.
Attendance grew, drawing more diverse attendees.
Social media and dedicated event platforms have streamlined promotion and coordination. Munches have diversified by catering to various interests and demographics. Munches have become increasingly instrumental through increased focus on safety, consent, and inclusivity.
Elder 3: “Look at y’all! All organized and open! So proud!”
Today, Munches accomplish a number of things:
*foster community, connection, and education.
*Provide a safe space for exploration and self-expression.
*Play a crucial role in normalizing BDSM/alt lifestyle practices
*promoting acceptance
Munches have come a long way, evolving from intimate, private gatherings to exciting, inclusive community events. By understanding their history, we appreciate the dedication and resilience of the BDSM/alt lifestyle community. As munches continue to thrive, they remain an important part of the community by nurturing connections and empowering us as individuals and as a whole.
Elder 1: “Keep going, baby! Y’all are doing good!”
Thanks for reading, y’all.
- His Duchess
