she had a rough day. After being pulled in a million different directions and putting out fires that she didn’t even start, she just needed peace. After Daddy called her and listened to her venting He quietly responded, “I’ll fix it, baby. When you complete your tasks, go ahead and soak in the tub. See you soon.” He hung up after she said, “this slave appreciates Your kindness, consideration and time, Sir.” An hour later she was in the tub trying to soak her troubles away. Was that the garage door?! Daddy’s home!!! she quickly jumped out of the tub, dried off and got herself together. she laid out His outfit and slippers on the bathroom counter, began the shower water then assumed Humble Position on the bedroom floor and waited while He showered. The calm she felt in the tub was replaced by excitement and anticipation. Steam from His shower escaped into the bedroom and sent a shiver through her body. she heard the bathroom door close and then…she FELT HIM. Looming over her, surveying her. “Perfection. Up.” she stood up carefully and cast her eyes down. “Welcome home, Sir.” He hugged her from behind. And then…He sunk His teeth in her neck….HARD. she was NOT ready! Breathe!!! He bit the back of her neck, holding on to her tightly to prevent her from falling as her knees buckled. He whispered, “Told you I’d fix it, baby.” As He bit her ear, she let out a contented sigh.
Okay, Y/y’all…let’s go ahead and get the educational stuff out of the way, shall we? Odaxelagnia is a Paraphilia involving sexual arousal through biting or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is considered by many to be a mild form of Sadism. In her Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices, Dr. Brenda Lovew included a LONG entry on sexual biting and reported that “biting is used by some to sexually excite their partner. It is done on the neck, ears, lips, nipples, back, buttocks, genitals, inner thighs, etc. The pressure used depends on their partner’s pain tolerance”. She also notes that sexual biting is one of the “easiest and most accepted methods” in sexual sadism and sexual masochism. She also claims that sexual biting produces an “increased sensation while bringing some individuals who are emotionally stressed out of their physical numbness, back in touch with their bodies.”
The Kama Sutra goes so far as to name all the different kinds of sexual bites and scratches, including those focused on the breasts and nipples. Eight kinds of bites are described in the chapter ‘On Biting, and the Means to be Employed with Regard to Women of Different Countries’ These are (1) the hidden bite, (2) the swollen bite, (3) the point, (4) the line of points, (5) the coral and the jewel, (6) the line of jewels, (7) the broken cloud, and (8) the biting of the boar. this girl researches biting because it has long been one of her very favorite things!
For many of U/us there aren’t many things as sexy as being nibbled or bitten by O/our partner(s)!!! Nibbling can feel great everywhere: nipples, breasts, arms,
ears, neck, feet, and thighs to name a few.
If Y/you want to bite a little harder, remember…unless T/they can handle the pain, stick to the meaty areas! The pain might be too intense if you chomp down hard on a bony area or if you miss and only bite the sensitive top layer of skin. Aim for the mucsular, meaty parts of the body. Some enjoy gentle bites and/or nibbles on the bony body parts such as fingers, shoulder blades and knees (OMMFG YESSSSS!!!).
For some the thighs are too sensitive and the genitals are an absolute NO because both of those areas are too sensitive and the pain just doesn’t transfer to pleasure for T/them; it just freaking hurts! For O/others, those areas are definitely on the menu!
One of the sexiest moves is when Y/you bite T/them on the back of the neck. This is what lions and other large mammals do to their mates in the wild to hold them still as they mate and there is nothing so sexy and empowering as feeling Y/your partner go weak and limp in Y/your arms, submitting with a sigh, growl or purr as Y/you sink your teeth perfectly into T/their upper shoulder/neck, completely making them Y/yours.
Biting is something that both sides of the slash enjoy. A good reward/incentive for a submissive is being able to sink their teeth into their Dom/mes! For Dom/mes it can serve as a reminder of who Their submissives belong to and who’s in control. It can also be used to put a submissive in the right headspace QUICKLY.
Biting can be as Primal and/or Sensual as Y/you choose it to be. A well timed, well placed bite can transform any moment or scene! Do some Research as well as talk about it with Y/your partner(s) and learn T/their bodies to avoid serious injuries. Once Y/you are confident and comfortable, dive in TEETH FIRST, Y/y’all!
~His Duchess
