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Squirt Can Happen

Squirt Can Happen

Female ejaculation, an elusive notion for some, squirt is something most have never experienced. It’s true that some women blow like Old Faithful but there are others, like myself, that felt this feat was possibly unattainable. Turns out, it really wasn’t, we just needed to get a little technical. Prep First:  Make sure you have…

Horsing Around

Horsing Around

That’s right, we’re talking about pony play. What is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a type of role play within the pet play family, in which the bottom assumes the role of an equid. The bottom may be referred to as a ponygirl or ponyboy. During pony play, the Trainer/Owner is typically the Top or Dominant.  Pony…

Aftercare

Aftercare

What is aftercare? Scenes can be both physically and emotionally demanding and intense. Aftercare is simply the care and extra consideration, both physically and emotionally, that is given after a scene. It is also important to remember that aftercare is not just for bottoms, but can be for Tops as well. A Top experiences physical…

Anal Toys

Anal Toys

It’s time to talk about the wide world of anal toys, what are they made of, how to keep them clean and some different types out there. When it comes to choosing the right toy for anal play, you want to above all, make sure it’s safe. Look for products labeled food-grade or medical grade….

Playing With Your Fruit

Playing With Your Fruit

There are so many awesome ways to use and incorporate food and especially fruit into the bedroom but for this article we’re going to focus on the grapefruit. That’s right grape fruiting, pioneered by Auntie Angel, this is a blowjob technique that is said to be mind blowing.  What is it?  Simply put. It involves…

The Wide World of Gags

The Wide World of Gags

Gags are generally used to inhibit use of the mouth by inserting something into it to prevent speech or noise or to keep it open.    In the world of kink, the purpose for the use of gag can be so much more far-reaching. It could be the sight, control, or even the function it…

Bite Me (Odaxelagnia)

Bite Me (Odaxelagnia)

The feeling of teeth sinking into the skin makes her gasp. Her excitement begins to race as his sharp, sweet grip tightens and pulls on her flesh until it begins to break. Feeling a little warm? If this gets you all aroused and sounds like an amazing time, you may just have a little kink or…

Let’s Turn the Heat Up in Here

Let’s Turn the Heat Up in Here

I’m talking about Temperature play and for this post specifically wax play. One of my absolute favorite tools for scenes.  Let’s discuss some basics. This list is by no means comprehensive and you should defiantly do your homework but here are some definite points that you should think about and use. First let’s talk Prep….

Let’s Get Deep

Let’s Get Deep

Between porn and all the information out there on the internet, deepthroating can be intimidating for many. What if I throw up? What if it won’t go down there? Will I be able to breathe? Never fear, your deep throating friend is here. This is just a quick look at training up and giving deep…

Dining at the Y

Dining at the Y

It amazes still me after all this time when I hear guys say, “I don’t eat pussy.” Or when women say that their man doesn’t eat them out. This is a mistake gentleman,  because unless your girl just hates the whole thing, you’re missing out and more importantly so is she, big time. Remember that…