
Ignite the Spark of Curiosity
How to Introduce BDSM to a Vanilla Partner So, you’ve discovered the thrilling world of BDSM, and you’re eager to share it with your vanilla partner. Introducing BDSM to someone unfamiliar with it can be a delicate dance, but with the right approach, it can lead to deeper intimacy, trust, and an electrifying exploration of…

Tips for littles and Caregivers—Age Play Exploration
The delightful and whimsical world of age play, a kink that allows adults to regress into child like personas (littles) and their caregivers to embrace nurturing, playful roles. No matter where you are in your journey, this guide will offer tips, insights, and a touch of magic to enhance your age play experiences. Get ready…

TICK TOCK! Time Management in BDSM
Day three of the Conference was BRUTAL. So many things went wrong; luckily everything was fixable. She was looking forward to tonight. However, when she checked her messages, her mood was immediately dampened by the lack of updates from toy. You’d think a man in HIS position would be all over it. toy earned a…

What is a Bullwhip?
Bullwhips are not only fascinating to watch, but they are also remarkable tools that have been used for centuries by cowboys, farmers, and other individuals who work with livestock. Even though your intended use may vary, these whips are still typically made from a combination of materials, including leather and nylon. They are designed to…

Personal Growth Starts Within
Self-introspection is the process of taking a step back and reflecting on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It’s an important part of personal growth because it allows us to identify areas where we can improve upon ourselves. Self-reflection helps us gain insight into who we are as individuals and how we interact with the world…

The Art of the Pinch
Thlipsosis is described as the fetish for being pinched or pinching a partner.Even if you don’t have a kink or fetish for this per se, you might be surprised at all the ways it can be used. The pinch is the squeezing of the skin whether it be with the thumb and the finger, with…

Not Just An Iconic Song
Dungeon nights were always interesting for her. Especially when she was a Monitor. One summer night she watched as the guests arrived. Some were new while others were frequent visitors. Then she focused on a striking couple that just walked in. Confident, immaculately dressed, and poised. They found a seat toward the front and sat…

Swimming With Sharks
she logged in less than five minutes ago and it has already begun. Checking her messages, she saw the usual “I saw your post/picture/comment” messages. Some completely benign; others positively Cringeworthy. Taking a deep breath, she settled in for another round of “Interesting or Cringey?” Another day…Another opportunity to learn. BDSM is like an ocean…with…

A Flood Of Emotions
There have been MANY times that this girl has cried but wasn’t sad. Sharing the very first time with y’all today. It was a hot muggy Autumn day in Italy. As she greeted clients and dealt with paperwork her mind wandered. Tonight can’t get here fast enough!!! She had her bags packed and she was…

Oops!
This one is boring. You will probably stop reading. Chances are that you’ll never read this Column again. But…here goes nothin’. The Bartender smiled and said, “What can I get ya, hon?” As she scanned the back patio she realized that she felt out of place. She turned back to the Bartender, smiled and said,…