Being “Kinky Enough”
Identifying as kinky, or just being interested in learning more about kink, is an entirely personal and individualized experience. However, Do not think that to belong to kink groups or to visit kinky spaces you must qualify as “Kinky Enough”. Whether you have twenty years of kink experience or just decided twenty minutes ago that…
Matthias Black
Uh Oh!
“Is there something you want to tell me about?” she stopped cold and surveyed her surroundings. The whoosh of the ceiling fan was the only sound in the room. There was a chair positioned in the center of the room. A covered table was near the chair. A snap of His fingers jolted her back….
Regina Charlisa
An Unexpected Lesson
“Wake up. NOW, bitch.” He was shaking her foot. she was startled as she opened her eyes and tried to focus. And right at that moment, He dragged her out of the bed by her ankles. she tried to brace her head; then realized it probably looked like she was struggling. Not good. Once she…
Enema Play 101
Heyyy, y’all! Erotic Enemas are enjoyed by a wide number of the population. Dr. Joanne Denko coined the work Klismaphilia to describe the practices of people who enjoyed the use of enemas as a sexual stimulant. Enema Play has a strong appeal to those who enjoy anal stimulation. For those who are into Dominance and…
What to Expect From a Play Party?
In laymen’s terms, a play party is usually a private event that hosted by someone in a private setting (Home, private or rented dungeon etc.) They are sometimes held after another more public event, such as a munch. *Disclaimer Please remember that there is no guarantee that there will be a party after any event,…
The Cat’s Out Of The Bag!
Okay…let’s get into this. Some of U/us spent years leading double lives. W/we work, socialize, raise families, etc…all while having desires and needs that most folks might consider dangerous. Losing custody of children, breaking the law type dangerous. So W/we kept a large part of who W/we truly are hidden. We might do this because…
Water Sports
Water sports or golden showers (commonly abbreviated g.s.) is defined as playing with urine/pee/piss. It can be urinating on or in the submissive, making the submissive drink urine or any other urine oriented BDSM activity. There is debate as to whether water sports qualify as “edge play”…It may or may not, depending on the practitioners…
‘Sup, Y/y’all! Who’s familiar with “Words have power?” this girl is fairly certain that W/we all have heard it or even said it before. But in what context? To some folks that phrase has more significance than it does to others. Words DEFINITELY have power, Y/y’all. So let’s look at how powerful some words and…
Meeting People In The Scene
“How do I meet people?” If I had a dollar for every time I read or was asked this question…Well, let’s just say, I would be writing this article on a small yacht somewhere off the Florida Keys. For some naturally charismatic, outgoing extroverts (Gives my submissive the side-eye) this is easy, people just flock naturally to…
“Rabbit Holes and Butterflies”
fren·zy /ˈfrenzē/ noun a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior. Okay, y’all…let’s do this. Vicenza Italy, 1994. this girl and her hubby were invited to a private party at a villa. she saw things that changed her forever. she became obsessed. she wanted to try EVERYTHING. she watched tons of porn, bought…