The Meaning and History of the Jockstrap
By Vayren Aram Invented in 1874 C.F. Bennet originally for bicycle messengers and delivery men, also known as bike jockeys, the jockstrap is an ever prevalent part of both the gay and straight culture. During the early 1900’s, jockstraps became massively popular garments for those involved in contact sports given the jock’s ability to offer…
Vayren Aram
The Cane Massage
Prep, Pleasure, and the Art of the Beautiful Mark By kinky smurf Okay, let’s talk about canes… Because I know what you’re thinking. You hear the word cane and your brain immediately goes to that sharp, stinging crack that makes your eyes water just thinking about it. And yes, we will absolutely get there. But…
kinky smurf
Making Beautiful Music…Together
He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking everything in…her hair, wild. her eyes, closed. her breathing, ragged. her body, covered in goosebumps. her hands, BUSY. her moans, GLORIOUS. He walked over to her, bent down, grabbed a handful…
Regina Charlisa
Masochism
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions. When it comes to a sadist’s wants and needs in a dynamic, they usually pair well with the other side of that coin, a masochist. Today we’ll be having a look at masochism including some things that a…
Bad Daddy Drew
Sadism
Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s own well-being. Awareness is an important thing for either side of the slash in any type of BDSM dynamic, and is going to weigh in heavily with this week’s topic: Sadism. Sadism…
submission
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy dynamic. A large portion of that involved certain responsibilities that fall on the Dominant, but they are only part of the dynamic. This week we’re going to have a look at…
Domination
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in establishing and maintaining discipline. While discussing this I made mention of Dominants and submissives, which are both common roles each partner takes on in a BDSM based dynamic. The next couple…
Under the Umbrella
In our lifestyle, however it may manifest, we are encountered with numerous“umbrella terms”. These terms cover various other umbrella terms, all of whichhelp us to identify what part/s of the lifestyle we’re into. Here we’ll bediscussing some of those terms and breaking them down, to help new andexperienced members alike to understand what this terms…
Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford to fudge, dance around or sugarcoat, be brutally honest about your needs, wants and desires. Not “hint at,” not “hope they’ll just understand,” not “assume it’ll all work out.” Full, unfiltered, cards-on-the-table…
SmutHustler
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder 1, 78 years old: “Do y’all still have meet ups? You know, eat, drink, laugh, sizing each other up? Hee hee” Elder 2, 81 years old: “We used…