
Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into immersive, thrilling adventures. Maybe you’ve tried some of these before or maybe they are new to you, no matter whether it’s time to pull these from the closet or try them on…

Embracing Your Kinky Self
Let’s explore the empowering and exhilarating intersection of BDSM and body positivity. Whether you’ve been in the scene for a while or are a curious newbie, embracing your kinky self while celebrating your body is a journey that can lead to profound self-acceptance, confidence, and joy. These are just a few tips, insights, and a…

A Look At Masochism
“Masochism. Is. Agony. It’s also ecstasy. It’s also frustrating. And also exhilarating. It’s like, ‘It hurts me, yet doesn’t damage me.’ That feeling…that electric surge…then the aftermath. The bruises may go away quickly; yet sometimes it may take days to emotionally and mentally recover. It is a delicate dance between agony and ecstasy. This is…

Ignite the Spark of Curiosity
How to Introduce BDSM to a Vanilla Partner So, you’ve discovered the thrilling world of BDSM, and you’re eager to share it with your vanilla partner. Introducing BDSM to someone unfamiliar with it can be a delicate dance, but with the right approach, it can lead to deeper intimacy, trust, and an electrifying exploration of…

Nurturing Healing – How a Dominant Can Support Their Submissive in Dealing with Past Traumas
In the realm of BDSM, the relationship between a Dominant and a submissive is built on trust, communication, and understanding. It is not uncommon for submissives to have past traumas that can affect their well being and ability to fully engage in a power exchange dynamic. In such cases, it is essential for the Dominant…

“Reality Check!”
Okay, y’all…this girl has questions. That concludes THIS Reality Check. There will be more. Thanks for reading. ~ His Duchess

Not Just An Iconic Song
Dungeon nights were always interesting for her. Especially when she was a Monitor. One summer night she watched as the guests arrived. Some were new while others were frequent visitors. Then she focused on a striking couple that just walked in. Confident, immaculately dressed, and poised. They found a seat toward the front and sat…

A Flood Of Emotions
There have been MANY times that this girl has cried but wasn’t sad. Sharing the very first time with y’all today. It was a hot muggy Autumn day in Italy. As she greeted clients and dealt with paperwork her mind wandered. Tonight can’t get here fast enough!!! She had her bags packed and she was…

Oops!
This one is boring. You will probably stop reading. Chances are that you’ll never read this Column again. But…here goes nothin’. The Bartender smiled and said, “What can I get ya, hon?” As she scanned the back patio she realized that she felt out of place. She turned back to the Bartender, smiled and said,…