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“Surviving The Fall”

“Surviving The Fall”

He did that thing she loved! she was in the shower, singing loudly, off key like a MF. she caught herself and laughed. Girl, that was a week ago! Regroup! she smiled as she remembered how He was prepared to pamper her, but she asked to be left alone. He graciously obliged her, but brought…

“Okay, I’ll say it…AGAIN”

“Okay, I’ll say it…AGAIN”

Heyyy, Y/y’all! Let’s talk about Labels. Some find them helpful or even a requirement; others find them unnecessary and frustrating. Truth is, W/we all believe in O/our bones that W/we know the best way to describe U/us and that’s all that matters. If folks don’t get it, oh well. Noted and understood, F/fam. But let’s…

“The Leap”

“The Leap”

she took a deep breath and gathered herself. It was time. she had to. But then the doubts and fears crept in. What will happen? Will this change everything? Maybe it will change how He feels. And then…she took another deep and recited in her head, “Respect. Communication. Trust. Honesty.” Then she felt ready. Yes…she’s…

“Kink With A Wink”

“Kink With A Wink”

she was up early, prepping for the class she would be teaching later that morning. He asked if she was fully prepared. “Yes, Sir. this slave enjoys teaching this module, Signore.” she wondered…did she sound arrogant? Could He tell how nervous she was??? Dammit! Of course! That’s why He’s so quiet! “Let’s help you remain…

Reasons

Reasons

“FOCUS, woman!” she was supposed to be reviewing a Lesson Plan. But instead…she was thinking of HIM. He was so attentive and accessible. she can think of one way to show her affection, admiration and appreciation if He will be gracious enough to allow it. she is always eager, yet patient…inhaling His scent, so intoxicating….

Daddies and Mommies and Littles, Oh My!

Daddies and Mommies and Littles, Oh My!

Ever hear someone call their partner “Daddy” or “Mommy” and feel a little grossed out? Does the idea of an adult identifying as a “little” make you wonder what is wrong with them or wonder what that even means? Granted…While there are some sick people in the world, the Mommy/Daddy/little dynamic in D/s relationships has…

Control and Release

Control and Release

“Time’s up. Get out and get ready for it.” He smiled as He walked back out of the bathroom. she felt that familiar flutter of excitement. she was soaking in the tub as required but had no idea what happened next. she got up, dried herself off and prepared her skin for Impact, bondage and…

BDSM D/s Contracts…Are They Worth It?

BDSM D/s Contracts…Are They Worth It?

A constant feature of any media portrayal of power exchange relationships and a common centerpiece of Master/slave fantasies: the BDSM D/s contract. While not legally binding, it does outline the entire relationship.It is typically something the D-Type crafts in private, and gives to their s-type(s) to sign. The contract outlines all of the things that…

A Reminder

A Reminder

Okay… So this girl was halfway through writing an article, took a break and saw a beautiful post on Instagram so now…new topic! Anyway,the post was a snippet from a heavy Impact scene. The bottom was bent over a bench, hands bound, gagged and blindfolded. Some refer to this as a Sensory Play Trinity lol….

So, you’re really 24/7? Really?

So, you’re really 24/7? Really?

We hear the term 24/7 all the time in the lifestyle, I myself say it every day. But is there really any such thing? That would mean that life never gets in the way and that vanilla never comes into play. So, what exactly does 24/7 mean? Well if you take it literally, it means…