A Look At Masochism
“Masochism. Is. Agony. It’s also ecstasy. It’s also frustrating. And also exhilarating. It’s like, ‘It hurts me, yet doesn’t damage me.’ That feeling…that electric surge…then the aftermath. The bruises may go away quickly; yet sometimes it may take days to emotionally and mentally recover. It is a delicate dance between agony and ecstasy. This is…
Regina Charlisa
Sensibly Social: Etiquette in BDSM and Kink Events
They were nervous about what to expect. They went through several different outfits. They came up with codes and signals to use. Finally, the time arrived and they were on their way. They were silent during the drive. When they walked in, they were greeted and led towards a small room. A kind older lady…
TICK TOCK! Time Management in BDSM
Day three of the Conference was BRUTAL. So many things went wrong; luckily everything was fixable. She was looking forward to tonight. However, when she checked her messages, her mood was immediately dampened by the lack of updates from toy. You’d think a man in HIS position would be all over it. toy earned a…
The “C” Word: Discovering Consent
“Ready for it, sparky?” She grinned as she surveyed her work. He was tied to the chair, nipples clamped, caged, gagged and blindfolded. Yet, he responded in every way he could. He tapped his hands twice. He nodded emphatically. She pulled the gag out, lifted the blindfold, and asked AGAIN. “Are you ready for your…
“Reality Check!”
Okay, y’all…this girl has questions. That concludes THIS Reality Check. There will be more. Thanks for reading. ~ His Duchess
Not Just An Iconic Song
Dungeon nights were always interesting for her. Especially when she was a Monitor. One summer night she watched as the guests arrived. Some were new while others were frequent visitors. Then she focused on a striking couple that just walked in. Confident, immaculately dressed, and poised. They found a seat toward the front and sat…
Swimming With Sharks
she logged in less than five minutes ago and it has already begun. Checking her messages, she saw the usual “I saw your post/picture/comment” messages. Some completely benign; others positively Cringeworthy. Taking a deep breath, she settled in for another round of “Interesting or Cringey?” Another day…Another opportunity to learn. BDSM is like an ocean…with…
A Flood Of Emotions
There have been MANY times that this girl has cried but wasn’t sad. Sharing the very first time with y’all today. It was a hot muggy Autumn day in Italy. As she greeted clients and dealt with paperwork her mind wandered. Tonight can’t get here fast enough!!! She had her bags packed and she was…
Oops!
This one is boring. You will probably stop reading. Chances are that you’ll never read this Column again. But…here goes nothin’. The Bartender smiled and said, “What can I get ya, hon?” As she scanned the back patio she realized that she felt out of place. She turned back to the Bartender, smiled and said,…
Pillars And Puzzles
Okay…so who likes puzzles? this girl certainly does! Yet some puzzles give her the blues lol. Like the ones you ALMOST have figured out but the final pieces prove to be a challenge that frustrates the hell out of us lol. Enough about that for now lol. So…It’s been a hectic week, y’all. this girl…