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Oh, The STRESS!

Oh, The STRESS!

What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was floating. As she started her drive home, she was singing and smiling. Her phone dinged. And then, it hit her. Dungeon Time tonight. “$h!t! Is my hair okay? Will my outfit be…

Whack, Smack, and Crack – Impact Play Fun

Whack, Smack, and Crack – Impact Play Fun

Impact play is one of the most popular and well-known aspects of BDSM—chances are, you’ve heard of it, and many of you have even given it a try. From spanking to paddling, flogging to cropping, this playful practice transforms simple strikes into a symphony of sensations. Impact play is all about mixing style, finesse, and…

Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM

Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM

Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can arise is insecurity, which can manifest in various forms, such as doubts about one’s worth, fear of being replaced, or uncertainty about one’s role. Acknowledging, addressing, and managing insecurity is crucial for health and…

The Playful Guide to Wax Play

The Playful Guide to Wax Play

Are you ready to take a hot dive into sensuality? When it comes to BDSM, wax play is like the chocolate fondue of kink—sensual, exciting, and a little messy if you’re not careful. If you’re curious about dripping hot wax on your partner and turning your bedroom into a candlelit masterpiece, check out these tips,…

The Conversation Continues

The Conversation Continues

R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. It’s like a Teacher calling me out in class.” They both chuckled. R: “Okay, a few folx have questions for you. Thanks again for doing this! Ready?” B: “READY! Let’s do it!” R:…

Bondage 101: Valentine’s Day Edition

Bondage 101: Valentine’s Day Edition

When it comes to celebrating Valentine’s Day, chocolates and roses are classic, but why not spice things up this year with something a little more adventurous? Bondage play can be a thrilling way to explore intimacy, trust, and a connection with your partner—and yes, it can also be a whole lot of fun. Whether you’ve…

Needs vs. Wants in Relationships

Needs vs. Wants in Relationships

The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between your inner toddler and your adult self. On one hand, you might think, “I need my partner to bring me breakfast in bed every Sunday.” But do you really need…

Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips

Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips

Are you ready to to take a look into impact play? It is one of the number one kinks explored and whether you’re new to the scene or you’ve been hanging around a while, impact play offers an exhilarating mix of sensations that can elevate your BDSM experience. But before we dive into the fun,…

Safety is the Subject

Safety is the Subject

Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s review the taps, slave.” she steadied herself and said, “One tap for physical, Lord. Two taps for mental, Lord. Three taps for spiritual, Lord. Four taps for emotional, Lord.” He lovingly squeezed her…

How to Keep the Spark Alive

How to Keep the Spark Alive

Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons of affection to, well, binge watching Netflix in separate blankets. And while there’s nothing wrong with that, we all love a cozy night in, maintaining excitement in your intimate life can feel…