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Needs vs. Wants in Relationships

Needs vs. Wants in Relationships

The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between your inner toddler and your adult self. On one hand, you might think, “I need my partner to bring me breakfast in bed every Sunday.” But do you really need…

Safety is the Subject

Safety is the Subject

Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s review the taps, slave.” she steadied herself and said, “One tap for physical, Lord. Two taps for mental, Lord. Three taps for spiritual, Lord. Four taps for emotional, Lord.” He lovingly squeezed her…

BDSM and Mental Health

BDSM and Mental Health

Balancing Pleasure and Well-being Welcome explorers of desire! Are you ready to take a dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked aspect of BDSM, mental health. Engaging in BDSM can be thrilling, transformative, and deeply fulfilling, but it also requires a keen awareness of emotional well being. Let’s explore how to balance the intoxicating…

Selfishness and submission

Selfishness and submission

she sat quietly, looking at her phone in disbelief. The message simply said, “You got a minute?” Seems like a basic thing. she knew different because she had been here before. Daddy needs His dinner early tonight. Boss needs that report before lunch tomorrow. One more load to finish. HELL NO I DON’T HAVE TEN…

The Power Imbalance in Power Exchange Dynamics 

The Power Imbalance in Power Exchange Dynamics 

In the amazingly complicated world of power exchange relationships, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of a clearly defined dynamic where one person takes the lead and the other follows. Sounds simple right? Well as any experienced participant will tell you, maintaining this balance of power isn’t as straightforward as it seems,…

Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene

Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene

Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into immersive, thrilling adventures. Maybe you’ve tried some of these before or maybe they are new to you, no matter whether it’s time to pull these from the closet or try them on…

“A Conversation.”

“A Conversation.”

Looking at the Male submissive Perspective She smiled as she thought of him. She straightened herself up as she dialed. Two rings later, she saw the smile she spent a lot of time wiping off his face in various CONSENSUALLY decadent ways. “Hello there! You look fantastic as always! Hope everyone is doing well! I’m…

A Look At Masochism

A Look At Masochism

“Masochism. Is. Agony. It’s also ecstasy. It’s also frustrating. And also exhilarating. It’s like, ‘It hurts me, yet doesn’t damage me.’ That feeling…that electric surge…then the aftermath. The bruises may go away quickly; yet sometimes it may take days to emotionally and mentally recover. It is a delicate dance between agony and ecstasy. This is…

Ignite the Spark of Curiosity

Ignite the Spark of Curiosity

How to Introduce BDSM to a Vanilla Partner So, you’ve discovered the thrilling world of BDSM, and you’re eager to share it with your vanilla partner. Introducing BDSM to someone unfamiliar with it can be a delicate dance, but with the right approach, it can lead to deeper intimacy, trust, and an electrifying exploration of…

TICK TOCK! Time Management in BDSM

TICK TOCK! Time Management in BDSM

Day three of the Conference was BRUTAL. So many things went wrong; luckily everything was fixable. She was looking forward to tonight. However, when she checked her messages, her mood was immediately dampened by the lack of updates from toy. You’d think a man in HIS position would be all over it. toy earned a…