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Selfishness and submission

Selfishness and submission

she sat quietly, looking at her phone in disbelief. The message simply said, “You got a minute?” Seems like a basic thing. she knew different because she had been here before. Daddy needs His dinner early tonight. Boss needs that report before lunch tomorrow. One more load to finish. HELL NO I DON’T HAVE TEN…

The Power Imbalance in Power Exchange Dynamics 

The Power Imbalance in Power Exchange Dynamics 

In the amazingly complicated world of power exchange relationships, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of a clearly defined dynamic where one person takes the lead and the other follows. Sounds simple right? Well as any experienced participant will tell you, maintaining this balance of power isn’t as straightforward as it seems,…

TICK TOCK! Time Management in BDSM

TICK TOCK! Time Management in BDSM

Day three of the Conference was BRUTAL. So many things went wrong; luckily everything was fixable. She was looking forward to tonight. However, when she checked her messages, her mood was immediately dampened by the lack of updates from toy. You’d think a man in HIS position would be all over it. toy earned a…

Digital Desires: Kink Friendly Dating Apps and How to Use Them

Digital Desires: Kink Friendly Dating Apps and How to Use Them

Today Free the Kinkers, we are going to talk about going to the internet to fulfill our desires. That’s right, we are talking about kink friendly dating apps! In today’s digital age, finding like-minded souls to explore your kinks and passions with has never been easier, thanks to the rise of kink friendly dating apps….

Nurturing Healing – How a Dominant Can Support Their Submissive in Dealing with Past Traumas

Nurturing Healing – How a Dominant Can Support Their Submissive in Dealing with Past Traumas

In the realm of BDSM, the relationship between a Dominant and a submissive is built on trust, communication, and understanding. It is not uncommon for submissives to have past traumas that can affect their well being and ability to fully engage in a power exchange dynamic. In such cases, it is essential for the Dominant…

“Reality Check!”

“Reality Check!”

Okay, y’all…this girl has questions. That concludes THIS Reality Check. There will be more. Thanks for reading. ~ His Duchess

Swimming With Sharks

Swimming With Sharks

she logged in less than five minutes ago and it has already begun. Checking her messages, she saw the usual “I saw your post/picture/comment” messages. Some completely benign; others positively Cringeworthy. Taking a deep breath, she settled in for another round of “Interesting or Cringey?” Another day…Another opportunity to learn. BDSM is like an ocean…with…

Pillars And Puzzles

Pillars And Puzzles

Okay…so who likes puzzles? this girl certainly does! Yet some puzzles give her the blues lol. Like the ones you ALMOST have figured out but the final pieces prove to be a challenge that frustrates the hell out of us lol. Enough about that for now lol. So…It’s been a hectic week, y’all. this girl…

Gentleman D/Types or “Gentle-Doms”

Gentleman D/Types or “Gentle-Doms”

Being Dominant is not a replacement for having a personality. Some tend to think that it is and if they can be Dominant, then it would help them to associate with people who would not associate with them in the “vanilla” world. I guess this is why one of my classifications in the world of…

“Shhhhh…”

“Shhhhh…”

She watched as he addressed the reporters asking him questions. His uniform was pristine; his posture and hand gestures were perfect. She was very proud of him. When it was her turn to speak, she was equally poised. But then she heard something that slightly sounded like…is that…laughter?! He was laughing and joking…during her interview….