The Power Imbalance in Power Exchange Dynamics
In the amazingly complicated world of power exchange relationships, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of a clearly defined dynamic where one person takes the lead and the other follows. Sounds simple right? Well as any experienced participant will tell you, maintaining this balance of power isn’t as straightforward as it seems,…
SmutHustler
Being “Kinky Enough”
Identifying as kinky, or just being interested in learning more about kink, is an entirely personal and individualized experience. However, Do not think that to belong to kink groups or to visit kinky spaces you must qualify as “Kinky Enough”. Whether you have twenty years of kink experience or just decided twenty minutes ago that…
Matthias Black
Words of Advice For the Brand New Dominant…In No Particular Order.
1)As I have said time and time again, beating somebody does not make you a Dominant. Let’s face it, anybody can be taught how to use a cane, ridingcrop, flogger, restraints, etc. Just because you have become adept atkicking somebody’s ass is not the mark of a Dominant. At worst, you are anabuser and should…