Needs vs. Wants in Relationships
The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between your inner toddler and your adult self. On one hand, you might think, “I need my partner to bring me breakfast in bed every Sunday.” But do you really need…
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Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips
Are you ready to to take a look into impact play? It is one of the number one kinks explored and whether you’re new to the scene or you’ve been hanging around a while, impact play offers an exhilarating mix of sensations that can elevate your BDSM experience. But before we dive into the fun,…
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Safety is the Subject
Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s review the taps, slave.” she steadied herself and said, “One tap for physical, Lord. Two taps for mental, Lord. Three taps for spiritual, Lord. Four taps for emotional, Lord.” He lovingly squeezed her…
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How to Keep the Spark Alive
Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons of affection to, well, binge watching Netflix in separate blankets. And while there’s nothing wrong with that, we all love a cozy night in, maintaining excitement in your intimate life can feel…
Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into immersive, thrilling adventures. Maybe you’ve tried some of these before or maybe they are new to you, no matter whether it’s time to pull these from the closet or try them on…
What is Compersion?
The Art of Feeling Warm Fuzzies When Your Partner’s Having a Good Time…With Someone Else Ah, compersion, the elusive, unicorn like feeling that every polyamorous person aspires to. If you’ve ever experienced that warm glow of happiness when your partner is off having fun with someone else, instead of hiding under the bed with a…
Embracing Your Kinky Self
Let’s explore the empowering and exhilarating intersection of BDSM and body positivity. Whether you’ve been in the scene for a while or are a curious newbie, embracing your kinky self while celebrating your body is a journey that can lead to profound self-acceptance, confidence, and joy. These are just a few tips, insights, and a…
A Look At Masochism
“Masochism. Is. Agony. It’s also ecstasy. It’s also frustrating. And also exhilarating. It’s like, ‘It hurts me, yet doesn’t damage me.’ That feeling…that electric surge…then the aftermath. The bruises may go away quickly; yet sometimes it may take days to emotionally and mentally recover. It is a delicate dance between agony and ecstasy. This is…
Ignite the Spark of Curiosity
How to Introduce BDSM to a Vanilla Partner So, you’ve discovered the thrilling world of BDSM, and you’re eager to share it with your vanilla partner. Introducing BDSM to someone unfamiliar with it can be a delicate dance, but with the right approach, it can lead to deeper intimacy, trust, and an electrifying exploration of…
Tips for littles and Caregivers—Age Play Exploration
The delightful and whimsical world of age play, a kink that allows adults to regress into child like personas (littles) and their caregivers to embrace nurturing, playful roles. No matter where you are in your journey, this guide will offer tips, insights, and a touch of magic to enhance your age play experiences. Get ready…