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Needs vs. Wants in Relationships

Needs vs. Wants in Relationships

The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between your inner toddler and your adult self. On one hand, you might think, “I need my partner to bring me breakfast in bed every Sunday.” But do you really need…

Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips

Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips

Are you ready to to take a look into impact play? It is one of the number one kinks explored and whether you’re new to the scene or you’ve been hanging around a while, impact play offers an exhilarating mix of sensations that can elevate your BDSM experience. But before we dive into the fun,…

Safety is the Subject

Safety is the Subject

Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s review the taps, slave.” she steadied herself and said, “One tap for physical, Lord. Two taps for mental, Lord. Three taps for spiritual, Lord. Four taps for emotional, Lord.” He lovingly squeezed her…

How to Keep the Spark Alive

How to Keep the Spark Alive

Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons of affection to, well, binge watching Netflix in separate blankets. And while there’s nothing wrong with that, we all love a cozy night in, maintaining excitement in your intimate life can feel…

BDSM and Mental Health

BDSM and Mental Health

Balancing Pleasure and Well-being Welcome explorers of desire! Are you ready to take a dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked aspect of BDSM, mental health. Engaging in BDSM can be thrilling, transformative, and deeply fulfilling, but it also requires a keen awareness of emotional well being. Let’s explore how to balance the intoxicating…

Selfishness and submission

Selfishness and submission

she sat quietly, looking at her phone in disbelief. The message simply said, “You got a minute?” Seems like a basic thing. she knew different because she had been here before. Daddy needs His dinner early tonight. Boss needs that report before lunch tomorrow. One more load to finish. HELL NO I DON’T HAVE TEN…

Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene

Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene

Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into immersive, thrilling adventures. Maybe you’ve tried some of these before or maybe they are new to you, no matter whether it’s time to pull these from the closet or try them on…

Embracing Your Kinky Self

Embracing Your Kinky Self

Let’s explore the empowering and exhilarating intersection of BDSM and body positivity. Whether you’ve been in the scene for a while or are a curious newbie, embracing your kinky self while celebrating your body is a journey that can lead to profound self-acceptance, confidence, and joy. These are just a few tips, insights, and a…

A Look At Masochism

A Look At Masochism

“Masochism. Is. Agony. It’s also ecstasy. It’s also frustrating. And also exhilarating. It’s like, ‘It hurts me, yet doesn’t damage me.’ That feeling…that electric surge…then the aftermath. The bruises may go away quickly; yet sometimes it may take days to emotionally and mentally recover. It is a delicate dance between agony and ecstasy. This is…

Sensibly Social: Etiquette in BDSM and Kink Events

Sensibly Social: Etiquette in BDSM and Kink Events

They were nervous about what to expect. They went through several different outfits. They came up with codes and signals to use. Finally, the time arrived and they were on their way. They were silent during the drive. When they walked in, they were greeted and led towards a small room. A kind older lady…