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Making Beautiful Music…Together

Making Beautiful Music…Together

He heard familiar sounds as He stepped out of the shower. He smiled as He dried Himself QUICKLY. He walked into the bedroom, taking everything in…her hair, wild. her eyes, closed. her breathing, ragged. her body, covered in goosebumps. her hands, BUSY. her moans, GLORIOUS. He walked over to her, bent down, grabbed a handful…

Masochism

Masochism

Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed sadism, along with some of the responsibilities and safety precautions.  When it comes to a sadist’s wants and needs in a dynamic, they usually pair well with the other side of that coin, a masochist.  Today we’ll be having a look at masochism including some things that a…

Sadism

Sadism

Under the Umbrella Last week we had a look at submission, and the fact that just being submissive doesn’t remove responsibility for one’s own well-being.  Awareness is an important thing for either side of the slash in any type of BDSM dynamic, and is going to weigh in heavily with this week’s topic: Sadism. Sadism…

submission

submission

Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy dynamic.  A large portion of that involved certain responsibilities that fall on the Dominant, but they are only part of the dynamic.  This week we’re going to have a look at…

Domination

Domination

Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in establishing and maintaining discipline.  While discussing this I made mention of Dominants and submissives, which are both common roles each partner takes on in a BDSM based dynamic.  The next couple…

Under the Umbrella

Under the Umbrella

In our lifestyle, however it may manifest, we are encountered with numerous“umbrella terms”. These terms cover various other umbrella terms, all of whichhelp us to identify what part/s of the lifestyle we’re into. Here we’ll bediscussing some of those terms and breaking them down, to help new andexperienced members alike to understand what this terms…

Brutal Honesty

Brutal Honesty

The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford to fudge, dance around or sugarcoat, be brutally honest about your needs, wants and desires. Not “hint at,” not “hope they’ll just understand,” not “assume it’ll all work out.” Full, unfiltered, cards-on-the-table…

Let’s Get Together!

Let’s Get Together!

Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder 1, 78 years old: “Do y’all still have meet ups? You know, eat, drink, laugh, sizing each other up? Hee hee” Elder 2, 81 years old: “We used…

The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation

The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation

Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. This guide will walk you through the how-tos, safety tips, and the fun of depriving the senses—all while keeping things safe, sexy, and full of trust. Let’s dive in! What Is Sensory…

Oh, The STRESS!

Oh, The STRESS!

What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was floating. As she started her drive home, she was singing and smiling. Her phone dinged. And then, it hit her. Dungeon Time tonight. “$h!t! Is my hair okay? Will my outfit be…