Safety is Sexy

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Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips
Impact Play- Techniques and Safety Tips

Are you ready to to take a look into impact play? It is one of the number one kinks explored and whether you’re new to the scene or you’ve been hanging around a while, impact play offers an exhilarating mix of sensations that can elevate your BDSM experience. But before we dive into the fun,…

Safety is the Subject
Safety is the Subject

Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s review the taps, slave.” she steadied herself and said, “One tap for physical, Lord. Two taps for mental, Lord. Three taps for spiritual, Lord. Four taps for emotional, Lord.” He lovingly squeezed her…

BDSM and Mental Health
BDSM and Mental Health

Balancing Pleasure and Well-being Welcome explorers of desire! Are you ready to take a dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked aspect of BDSM, mental health. Engaging in BDSM can be thrilling, transformative, and deeply fulfilling, but it also requires a keen awareness of emotional well being. Let’s explore how to balance the intoxicating…

Digital Desires: Kink Friendly Dating Apps and How to Use Them
Digital Desires: Kink Friendly Dating Apps and How to Use Them

Today Free the Kinkers, we are going to talk about going to the internet to fulfill our desires. That’s right, we are talking about kink friendly dating apps! In today’s digital age, finding like-minded souls to explore your kinks and passions with has never been easier, thanks to the rise of kink friendly dating apps….

The “C” Word: Discovering Consent
The “C” Word: Discovering Consent

“Ready for it, sparky?” She grinned as she surveyed her work. He was tied to the chair, nipples clamped, caged, gagged and blindfolded. Yet, he responded in every way he could. He tapped his hands twice. He nodded emphatically. She pulled the gag out, lifted the blindfold, and asked AGAIN. “Are you ready for your…

Slippery When Wet
Slippery When Wet

Calm down,  I am talking about lube.  Lube is super important addition to all types of play, it can help prevent friction burn and prolong fun. But there are so many! How do you choose?Hopefully this will help next time you’re searching for that perfect one. Water Based:  Positive features 1. Condom safe  2. Easy…