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Why Mindset Matters: The Power of Positivity in Power Exchange
Why Mindset Matters: The Power of Positivity in Power Exchange

Life isn’t all sunshine, orgasms and perfectly executed protocols. Sometimes, it’s tough. Work sucks. Bills pile up. Stress sneaks in, like an uninvited guest who won’t leave. And in a power exchange dynamic, both Dominants and submissives can feel the weight of these everyday struggles. But here’s the kicker, your mindset can make or break…

The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation
The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Deprivation

Are you ready to dive into the void and explore the tantalizing power of sensory deprivation? Then you’ve come to the right place. This guide will walk you through the how-tos, safety tips, and the fun of depriving the senses—all while keeping things safe, sexy, and full of trust. Let’s dive in! What Is Sensory…

Oh, The STRESS!
Oh, The STRESS!

What. A. Day. Work was awesome! Got everything done eat because everyone worked together! As she walked out of the building, she was floating. As she started her drive home, she was singing and smiling. Her phone dinged. And then, it hit her. Dungeon Time tonight. “$h!t! Is my hair okay? Will my outfit be…

Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM
Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM

Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can arise is insecurity, which can manifest in various forms, such as doubts about one’s worth, fear of being replaced, or uncertainty about one’s role. Acknowledging, addressing, and managing insecurity is crucial for health and…

How to Keep the Spark Alive
How to Keep the Spark Alive

Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons of affection to, well, binge watching Netflix in separate blankets. And while there’s nothing wrong with that, we all love a cozy night in, maintaining excitement in your intimate life can feel…

Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene

Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into immersive, thrilling adventures. Maybe you’ve tried some of these before or maybe they are new to you, no matter whether it’s time to pull these from the closet or try them on…

“A Conversation.”
“A Conversation.”

Looking at the Male submissive Perspective She smiled as she thought of him. She straightened herself up as she dialed. Two rings later, she saw the smile she spent a lot of time wiping off his face in various CONSENSUALLY decadent ways. “Hello there! You look fantastic as always! Hope everyone is doing well! I’m…

What is Compersion?
What is Compersion?

The Art of Feeling Warm Fuzzies When Your Partner’s Having a Good Time…With Someone Else Ah, compersion, the elusive, unicorn like feeling that every polyamorous person aspires to. If you’ve ever experienced that warm glow of happiness when your partner is off having fun with someone else, instead of hiding under the bed with a…

Sensibly Social: Etiquette in BDSM and Kink Events
Sensibly Social: Etiquette in BDSM and Kink Events

They were nervous about what to expect. They went through several different outfits. They came up with codes and signals to use. Finally, the time arrived and they were on their way. They were silent during the drive. When they walked in, they were greeted and led towards a small room. A kind older lady…

Ignite the Spark of Curiosity
Ignite the Spark of Curiosity

How to Introduce BDSM to a Vanilla Partner So, you’ve discovered the thrilling world of BDSM, and you’re eager to share it with your vanilla partner. Introducing BDSM to someone unfamiliar with it can be a delicate dance, but with the right approach, it can lead to deeper intimacy, trust, and an electrifying exploration of…

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