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How to Keep the Spark Alive
How to Keep the Spark Alive

Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons of affection to, well, binge watching Netflix in separate blankets. And while there’s nothing wrong with that, we all love a cozy night in, maintaining excitement in your intimate life can feel…

Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene
Role Playing Scenarios to Spice Up Your Scene

Are you ready to add a splash of excitement and creativity to your next scene? Role playing can transform your BDSM experiences into immersive, thrilling adventures. Maybe you’ve tried some of these before or maybe they are new to you, no matter whether it’s time to pull these from the closet or try them on…

“A Conversation.”
“A Conversation.”

Looking at the Male submissive Perspective She smiled as she thought of him. She straightened herself up as she dialed. Two rings later, she saw the smile she spent a lot of time wiping off his face in various CONSENSUALLY decadent ways. “Hello there! You look fantastic as always! Hope everyone is doing well! I’m…

What is Compersion?
What is Compersion?

The Art of Feeling Warm Fuzzies When Your Partner’s Having a Good Time…With Someone Else Ah, compersion, the elusive, unicorn like feeling that every polyamorous person aspires to. If you’ve ever experienced that warm glow of happiness when your partner is off having fun with someone else, instead of hiding under the bed with a…

Sensibly Social: Etiquette in BDSM and Kink Events
Sensibly Social: Etiquette in BDSM and Kink Events

They were nervous about what to expect. They went through several different outfits. They came up with codes and signals to use. Finally, the time arrived and they were on their way. They were silent during the drive. When they walked in, they were greeted and led towards a small room. A kind older lady…

Ignite the Spark of Curiosity
Ignite the Spark of Curiosity

How to Introduce BDSM to a Vanilla Partner So, you’ve discovered the thrilling world of BDSM, and you’re eager to share it with your vanilla partner. Introducing BDSM to someone unfamiliar with it can be a delicate dance, but with the right approach, it can lead to deeper intimacy, trust, and an electrifying exploration of…

Digital Desires: Kink Friendly Dating Apps and How to Use Them
Digital Desires: Kink Friendly Dating Apps and How to Use Them

Today Free the Kinkers, we are going to talk about going to the internet to fulfill our desires. That’s right, we are talking about kink friendly dating apps! In today’s digital age, finding like-minded souls to explore your kinks and passions with has never been easier, thanks to the rise of kink friendly dating apps….